Receiving Oral from Client

[Stephanie]

“ I don't think any of the Dominas have reverse as a favourite which I thnk is very unusual but there you go.”

It’s not Unusual : it’s Natural .

>> that Reverse Oral would not be offered by Dommes .

A Sub may be allowed to catch some pee , clean her bottom and what not , but a Domme would not allow further .

It’s all about the power dynamic ::

A Domme is Dominant , she’s the one In Charge ;

The Sub is Submissive .



To have an orgasm one has to surrender to the moment , to the pleasure , to one’s partner even ::

:: the power dynamics of a Domme session wouldn’t allow for that .

/ here I’m talking about proper domination , not Switch scenarios .

[Stephanie]

^^^ Completely different head-space to be in a Domination session ;

Or be in a give-and-take equal pleasure meeting x

[Blue60]

“ I don't think any of the Dominas have reverse as a favourite which I thnk is very unusual but there you go.”

It’s not Unusual : it’s Natural .

>> that Reverse Oral would not be offered by Dommes .

A Sub may be allowed to catch some pee , clean her bottom and what not , but a Domme would not allow further .

It’s all about the power dynamic ::

A Domme is Dominant , she’s the one In Charge ;

The Sub is Submissive .



To have an orgasm one has to surrender to the moment , to the pleasure , to one’s partner even ::

:: the power dynamics of a Domme session wouldn’t allow for that .

/ here I’m talking about proper domination , not Switch scenarios .

What's a Switch ?

[TommyH123]

love it, one of the best bits of a meet, I'm a 10 for enthusiasm but sadly only a 4 for technique, still despite the low score the lube is rarely needed for the main event.



the two cases...oral because you like it and oral because she asked for it, I'm option one all the way

[Blue60]

love it, one of the best bits of a meet, I'm a 10 for enthusiasm but sadly only a 4 for technique, still despite the low score the lube is rarely needed for the main event.



the two cases...oral because you like it and oral because she asked for it, I'm option one all the way

Are you being entirely truthful to yourself here ? For example, if the lady that, although personally she found RO boring , she was still more than happy for you to work away on the RO -- would you still enjoy it ?

For me anyway the enjoyment of RO is inter-twined with the vague hope that it is perhaps in some small way pleasing to the recipient .

[Stephanie]

Are you being entirely truthful to yourself here ? For example, if the lady that, although personally she found RO boring , she was still more than happy for you to work away on the RO -- would you still enjoy it ?

For me anyway the enjoyment of RO is inter-twined with the

vague hope that it is perhaps in some small way pleasing to the recipient .

If you derive personal pleasure from Her climax :: don’t get started unless you’re willing to take it home :-) !!

Nothing worse than getting turned on by a well meaning partner , only to be abandoned just

when it starts getting Good .

I have to go now , but would have a couple more thoughts on this lol x

[IAmLIAm]

If you derive personal pleasure from Her climax :: don’t get started unless you’re willing to take it home :-) !!

Nothing worse than getting turned on by a well meaning partner , only to be abandoned just

when it starts getting Good .

I have to go now , but would have a couple more thoughts on this lol x

I agree with the sentiment about not leaving things unfinished.

However, it is also important to note that not all women will reach climax this way.

Maybe she finds pleasure in the activity but she knows it won't bring her over the finish line.

This is were building a rapport is necessary, to know each other's desires and limits.

Obviously this takes time and isn't practical in all instances, but the only way to know for sure is to talk about these things.

Back to Blue'd point. I enjoy performing oral. I derive pleasure from giving pleasure.

By that token, if a lady doesn't enjoy receiving oral why would I want to force that act upon her?

I'd feel worse having her be subjected to a disliked or even "meh" activity rather than finding something we both would enjoy.

[Blue60]

“ I don't think any of the Dominas have reverse as a favourite which I thnk is very unusual but there you go.”

It’s not Unusual : it’s Natural .

>> that Reverse Oral would not be offered by Dommes .

A Sub may be allowed to catch some pee , clean her bottom and what not , but a Domme would not allow further .

It’s all about the power dynamic ::

A Domme is Dominant , she’s the one In Charge ;

The Sub is Submissive .



To have an orgasm one has to surrender to the moment , to the pleasure , to one’s partner even ::

:: the power dynamics of a Domme session wouldn’t allow for that .

/ here I’m talking about proper domination , not Switch scenarios .

Can you imagine a female client seeking a session with a male domination escort where he refuses to allow her to preform fellatio as part of the session ?

[Blue60]

If you derive personal pleasure from Her climax :: don’t get started unless you’re willing to take it home :-) !!

Nothing worse than getting turned on by a well meaning partner , only to be abandoned just

when it starts getting Good .

I have to go now , but would have a couple more thoughts on this lol x

Ha, I remember a session years ago where a then well loved escort had me f***ing her with my tongue. That was fine but after so long and near lock-jaw I suddenly thought WTF is going on here and decided to kop on

[Stephanie]

Can you imagine a female client seeking a session with a male domination escort where he refuses to allow her to preform fellatio as part of the session ?

Apples and oranges .