Shades of Cheating

[Mrbean76]

I had an intriguing conversation with a masseuse who advertises here. She's my regular, an amazing woman, and very skilled at her job (so lads, please dont ask me who it is). She made an interesting claim saying that while she's long time married, she didn't consider her sexual encounters as "cheating".

I'm married too, and i guess we all have our lines drawn outside of which we don't wish to colour. She doesn't engage in kissing, so that's her line. I don't engage in sex so that's mine.

I guess it's never black and white, but it got me thinking whether there are indeed shades of cheating. Can only unhappy committed people cheat? Can you not be happy and yet have sexual experiences? Am I too drunk lol

What do the committed legends think?

If you're having sex with another person without your partners knowledge or consent then you're cheating. Just don't get caught