Novice Punter's Summer in Review

[ArcaneAlex]

Hey. Not sure if this belongs here but felt like posting my thoughts.

So as per title, I'm completely new to the world of punting as of this summer. 30 years old and single after 10 years in a relationship. The dating world has changed a lot since I was 20. Tinder, Bumble, Hinge etc. weren't a thing the last time I was on the market so it's certainly been a shock to the system figuring out how to meet ladies in 2023

Anyway as you can imagine, after spending your entire twenties tied to a single person, I was definitely yearning to have more experiences with different women. Whilst I don't regret the relationship, I very much feel like I missed the wild care-free days of youth. Unfortunately my dating age range don't share that sentiment. All looking to settle down and have kids. So I figured rather than wasting their time and my own, I'd dip my toes in the world of escorts. And what a joy it's been

First off, most of my preconceptions were wrong! The media definitely goes out of its way to portray this industry as evil. Furthermore, I had an irrational fear of both STI's and being caught by gardai and vilified.

The reality has been that I've been met with extreme professionalism, warmth and care. It no doubt takes a lot of skill to meet random people every day, put them at ease and then share an intimate encounter. Maybe I've just been lucky but I put my trust in the review system and have had nothing but positive experiences with the escorts that I've shared time with

So that's it. Newly single. New to the world of punting. 5 spectacular visits, all of which I would happily repeat! It's been an interesting experience overall. I really feel like I've scratched the itch for novelty that I was chasing. I guess what I wasn't expecting was to like the companionship side so much. Nothing ever felt very mechanical or cold. It was always so pleasant and relaxing. I'm aware that's part of the job but it's deeply refreshing to be able to communicate your needs to a woman and have them met in such an open and understanding manner.

So do I pivot back to dating? Or do I double down and do an Autumn season of punting? I'm still on the fence. What I will say though I would be very tempted to meet a few of the lady's that frequent the forum as they seem to be great craic and lovely people.

It's been fun. Peace!

[RichieWade]

Nobody wants to go out of their way to rip their girlfriend off but there is a valid argument for not ripping yourself off by not seeing some of the girls on this site!

[oldfool]

Thanks. Curious as to why when i go to your profile page your reviews are hidden yet you set them all here in detail.
Most of us would allow sight of reviews but not favourites. (In my case a lot of those ladies have long departed these shores and i really should do a tidy up)

[Lighthearted2022]

Hey. Not sure if this belongs here but felt like posting my thoughts.

So as per title, I'm completely new to the world of punting as of this summer. 30 years old and single after 10 years in a relationship. The dating world has changed a lot since I was 20. Tinder, Bumble, Hinge etc. weren't a thing the last time I was on the market so it's certainly been a shock to the system figuring out how to meet ladies in 2023

Anyway as you can imagine, after spending your entire twenties tied to a single person, I was definitely yearning to have more experiences with different women. Whilst I don't regret the relationship, I very much feel like I missed the wild care-free days of youth. Unfortunately my dating age range don't share that sentiment. All looking to settle down and have kids. So I figured rather than wasting their time and my own, I'd dip my toes in the world of escorts. And what a joy it's been

First off, most of my preconceptions were wrong! The media definitely goes out of its way to portray this industry as evil. Furthermore, I had an irrational fear of both STI's and being caught by gardai and vilified.

The reality has been that I've been met with extreme professionalism, warmth and care. It no doubt takes a lot of skill to meet random people every day, put them at ease and then share an intimate encounter. Maybe I've just been lucky but I put my trust in the review system and have had nothing but positive experiences with the escorts that I've shared time with:

Emmanuella - could not have been in safer hands for my first outing. Understandably nervous, she was incredibly chill and relatable. She is the person that made me completely rethink punting. Very pretty but also someone I could chat with all day. Up until the meet, this was going to be a one time thing for me. I felt so guarded. All that melted away during my time with her. Very grateful for that day and hope she returns to Ireland again.

Iria X - My first experience had been so good, I couldn't believe it. So I decided to arrange a meet with Iria. In many ways, so so different. A little more shy at first but jaw droppingly gorgeous. And so so fit (I genuinely got a gym membership the day after, having admired her toned abs for the entire session, I felt so unfit in comparison). Again, I was shown incredible warmth. There was no sense of it being mechanical or that I was being rushed. Gave a lovely massage too.

Renatha Lopez - The pro! So as you can imagine, 2 back-to-back wonderful visits to ladies and that's it, I'm hooked. Now that I had kind of figured out how to organize meets and understand the basics, I decided to meet Renetha to try some new things. Wow - did she deliver. As a guy, it feels weird to 100% relinquish control but Renatha took the reigns and brought out a submissive side to me that I didnt know was there. I was utterly dominated and had the time of my life.

Leina Doll - Such a classy lady and the definition of perfect hour glass body. I personally gave a sub-par performance to being utterly overwhelmed by how pretty she was. Lucky for me, she was also a super smart and interesting person that I would meet up with again for the conversations alone. What a woman.

Luana 28 - My final meet of the summer. And what a wonderful way to cap it off. So petite and pretty. But also in possession of a whitty charm which is very disarming. So chatty and likable. Also, I didn't think I was ever really a boob guy until I saw hers. Just wow! I really liked my time with her.

So that's it. Newly single. New to the world of punting. 5 spectacular visits, all of which I would happily repeat! It's been an interesting experience overall. I really feel like I've scratched the itch for novelty that I was chasing. I guess what I wasn't expecting was to like the companionship side so much. Nothing ever felt very mechanical or cold. It was always so pleasant and relaxing. I'm aware that's part of the job but it's deeply refreshing to be able to communicate your needs to a woman and have them met in such an open and understanding manner.

So do I pivot back to dating? Or do I double down and do an Autumn season of punting? I'm still on the fence. What I will say though I would be very tempted to meet a few of the lady's that frequent the forum as they seem to be great craic and lovely people.

It's been fun. Peace!

All wonderful- that was me last year - loved meeting such interesting and beautiful women. I only wish I had done it like you when I was single as my relationship was going to go sideways if I didn't stop - so retirement it is.

Anyway - only reason I replied - why no reviews???

[64west]

You seem to think it dating scene or this business. Why not both, if you find someone from dating that fulfils your needs bow out but between dates drop in here. You have a good list there to satisfy ‘the need’ between relationships but you have not even “scratch the surface” of what is available. Five visits? That would buff out no bother.

[ArcaneAlex]

All wonderful- that was me last year - loved meeting such interesting and beautiful women. I only wish I had done it like you when I was single as my relationship was going to go sideways if I didn't stop - so retirement it is.

Anyway - only reason I replied - why no reviews???

After my first punt, I did a proper write up via standard review process. However it was removed due to my use of VPN.

Whilst I respect that it's difficult to run and moderate this type of site, I believe E-I users have a right to anonymity. If mods will accept convo screenshots as adequate proof of meet, then I am happy to post any future reviews going forward. But it will be with use of VPN.

[JennyIrish]

What is a VPN, is it like something that blocks ur IP address?

I guess it makes sence to not allow that as escorts could write their own reviews lol and create fake screenshots.

Anyway, happy punting, I totally agree that the image the media gives this industry is so wrong, of course there is a drak side but theres a professional side too.

[bananabox999]

What is a VPN, is it like something that blocks ur IP address?

Basically hides you.

You connect to a vpn. All your traffic then goes through them. Your isp will only see you connected to the vpn.
Will most likely show you as being in another country also tho i guess there is likely irish ones.

Many legit uses for a vpn, not all dodgey stuff.

Companies use em a lot to kind of close their own networks down and what not. Keep their data safe etc.

[bananabox999]

Glad you had a good summer man, i can understand some of this, being relatively new myself.

Considered a similar post myself as i approach 1 year, but then i thought who would care, and well iv only met one girl so it may read a bit ott. Lol. So i decided not to.

Your right tho, this was not what i expected before i started, then again im not sure what i expected.

Done great things for me personally, i cant really say in detail. Maybe someday i'll do a little abstract story for you lot.

[Barney Rubble]

Funny how the original post was edited by the Dayteam but full post remains in the replies to the post.

Not that I think there was anything wrong with the edited bits, from what I read they were complimentary comments.

But just found it unusual. Sure what's the point editing?