value

**bananabox999** · 13-08-23, 18:03

Its hard to talk about any of this without offending anyone.
Be it price/what they offer/ etc...

Value can be precieved differently. Some guys its the rates, but for me the value lies elsewhere, in the experience. In the following days/weeks, in how you feel. Your confidence, your self worth. I dont take that for granted. Id happily pay much more for what it has done for me.

You cant really put a monetary value on what these girls do for some of us. Treasure that.

Some dont see this, its a transaction to them, going to the shops, whatever way they look at it. Fair enough, that suits them but they'll never take away the same value from an appointment that i do.

**TonyB** · 13-08-23, 19:02

Originally Posted by bananabox999

Its hard to talk about any of this without offending anyone.
Be it price/what they offer/ etc...

Value can be precieved differently. Some guys its the rates, but for me the value lies elsewhere, in the experience. In the following days/weeks, in how you feel. Your confidence, your self worth. I dont take that for granted. Id happily pay much more for what it has done for me.

You cant really put a monetary value on what these girls do for some of us. Treasure that.

Some dont see this, its a transaction to them, going to the shops, whatever way they look at it. Fair enough, that suits them but they'll never take away the same value from an appointment that i do.

Not sure that's true, banana.

You go, you pay, you do your thing and leave.
Any misconceptions about feelings are exactly that, misconceptions.
After that it's just a friendly chat and sex.
There is nothing more.
These girls are not your friend and never will be.
They want money, and you want what you want.

It's transactional.
Anything done for you after that is in your head

Perhaps this is why I see others seeking kissing and I mostly avoid it except with maybe 2 or 3 out of several hundred. Yes maybe I'm the odd one. I don't know.
But I do know not one girl would give any of us the time of day without money

**bananabox999** · 13-08-23, 19:08

Originally Posted by TonyB

Not sure that's true, banana.

You go, you pay, you do your thing and leave.
Any misconceptions about feelings are exactly that, misconceptions.
After that it's just a friendly chat and sex.
There is nothing more.
These girls are not your friend and never will be.
They want money, and you want what you want.

It's transactional

Fair enough.
Does not change what i take away from it.

I didnt say anything about feelings or friendship.
Everyone knows my opinions on that anyway.
Nothing wrong with being friendly and having a little feelings once you know where it stops.

**Stephanie** · 13-08-23, 19:38

Originally Posted by TonyB

Not sure that's true, banana.

You go, you pay, you do your thing and leave.
Any misconceptions about feelings are exactly that, misconceptions.
After that it's just a friendly chat and sex.
There is nothing more.
These girls are not your friend and never will be.
They want money, and you want what you want.

It's transactional.
Anything done for you after that is in your head

Perhaps this is why I see others seeking kissing and I mostly avoid it except with maybe 2 or 3 out of several hundred. Yes maybe I'm the odd one. I don't know.
But I do know not one girl would give any of us the time of day without money

At the beginning of the Pandemic once I had made my escape from Dub to overseas ,

I sent packages of N95 masks to several of my guys who were frontline workers

and ROI had None for civilians . They cost a Fortune . I didn’t know if we’ll ever see each again .

Don’t Tell me we don’t Care .

Before I left , someone I never met had sent Me N95s .

People Care .

I feel sorry that you live in Your world ,

where you cannot even conceive that we might have Feelings and Humanity .

**TonyB** · 13-08-23, 19:44

Originally Posted by bananabox999

Fair enough.
Does not change what i take away from it.

I didnt say anything about feelings or friendship.
Everyone knows my opinions on that anyway.
Nothing wrong with being friendly and having a little feelings once you know where it stops.

True...
I agree

**Stephanie** · 13-08-23, 19:45

A shame to lose that other thread .

It had good advice .

Wasn’t out of hand either .

**Stephanie** · 13-08-23, 19:47

Locking it would’ve been more reasonable - even if there was no reason for it .

**TonyB** · 13-08-23, 19:47

Originally Posted by Stephanie

At the beginning of the Pandemic once I had made my escape from Dub to overseas ,

I sent packages of N95 masks to several of my guys who were frontline workers

and ROI had None for civilians . They cost a Fortune . I didn’t know if we’ll ever see each again .

Don’t Tell me we don’t Care .

Before I left , someone I never met had sent Me N95s .

People Care .

I feel sorry that you live in Your world ,

where you cannot even conceive that we might have Feelings and Humanity .

Well you're the exception.
I think you'll agree with this.

I know you care, so do I.
Sorry if I get a bit overly passionate at times

**bmw528** · 13-08-23, 19:48

Originally Posted by Stephanie

A shame to lose that other thread .

It had good advice .

Wasn’t out of hand either .

It seems to clash a bit with this one though, in a strange way.

**TonyB** · 13-08-23, 19:48

Originally Posted by Stephanie

A shame to lose that other thread .

It had good advice .

Wasn’t out of hand either .

I agree.
Frank discussion

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