Originally Posted by
jo54
You strike me as a new boy in town...
Treat them with the proper respect, just like any other person you come across in your life.
Contact them via call, SMS, or WhatsApp, whichever method their profile suggests. Say "Hi" and introduce yourself. You can even use a made-up name if you want. Maybe also share your age and where you come from.
She will appreciate that. Then, she will inquire about the time and duration you want to spend together. Share your interests, and she will let you know if she is comfortable with your preferences. Avoid negotiating rates.
Arrive at the location given for your appointment on time. Notify her when you are there, not a minute earlier or later. Meet her at the door, make your decision about whether you want to proceed with the service. If you decline, apologize, give your excuse, and leave while wishing her a good evening or night.
If you choose to take the service, enjoy it, and once it's finished, depart. If you had a good experience, consider writing a 5-star review. If it wasn't to your liking, simply don't return. Negative reviews can be avoided, especially considering personal preferences differ, and everyone has their own taste. Different thing is being left stranded, that's a mess.
Maintain this respectful behavior with all professionals you interact with, whether it's 5, 10, 15, 20, 30, or 40 more. You can have various experiences – good, bad, and average – that's just a part of life. However, try to mark 5 to 10 or 15 favorites from your experiences, so you can rely on them when they are available and repeat enjoyable encounters. This way, you play it safe. You can still try adding new ones to the shortlist and take your shot, but once you've established your favorites, you'll be better off avoiding taking unnecessary risks.
Never misbehave, even if someone upsets you (though it's unlikely). Simply leave the place. Their job and life can be tough, and they often have others around in their places to have their back, if you know what I mean, right? Also, you don't want to end up on a public bad-reputation list like UglyMugs with your number exposed, as that would severely limit your chances of getting any services in the future.
And don't forget, check for verified photos and read reviews. Take your time before making a decision. If you still want to try despite negative reviews, carefully read both the review and the provider's response to gain a better understanding.
Hope I've helped you.