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  1. Default Pm is useless

    Isn’t it? Never heard back from anyone ever by pm, and many have that as the only way they want to be contacted apart from presumably phoning them. But anyway that’s often not much of an option for me for reasons sorry if this has been covered a bunch of times already

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    Some ladies do respond to pm, some don't. But as someone who has been here less than 2 weeks and has no reviews yet I'd say your chances of a response are slim.
    Get some reviews under your belt and escorts will see you're not a timewaster and you should have more success with pm.

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    Exactly that. (As in what rooney said, not that its useless lol)
    You can chance your luck but slim chance of a response i would say.

    Have a look at some profiles, some prefer sms or whatsapp if that suits you better.

    Why cany you phone anyway??
    Last edited by bananabox999; 23-06-23 at 17:33.

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    Quote Originally Posted by FeelingFrisky View Post
    Isn’t it? Never heard back from anyone ever by pm, and many have that as the only way they want to be contacted apart from presumably phoning them. But anyway that’s often not much of an option for me for reasons sorry if this has been covered a bunch of times already
    A couple of weeks as a member and 13 posts...and zero reviews, no escort will take you seriously...just pick up the phone.That's is your best bet.
    Girls have hundreds of pms,txts and calls a day, there are filters you must pass...
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    pm is not the best way to contact ladies, but I have used it in the past. I have to say it was mostly with women who knew me and I got on really well.

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    I never got a response

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    I have a near 100% response rate to pm. However I've only arranged a punt via pm a few times. It's mostly for a chat or a thank you. Sometimes to enquire about tours or services or to discuss info that isn't allowed on the open forum.
    The only times I've organised a punt by pm was if I could not get through by phone. In that case I normally message the last few digits of my phone number and ask them to pick up or call back.

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    Timewasters and trolls kinda ruined it a bit

    i imagine it feels a hard and unfruitful chore for the escorts to sift through the shite
    to get to the genuine ones
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    Quote Originally Posted by FeelingFrisky View Post
    Isn’t it? Never heard back from anyone ever by pm, and many have that as the only way they want to be contacted apart from presumably phoning them. But anyway that’s often not much of an option for me for reasons sorry if this has been covered a bunch of times already
    You've only been around for a couple of weeks, or have you?

    Good luck getting a response by PM when you're a newbie with no reviews.
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    I used PM many times.
    Most of times I got an answer.
    Just be mindful, you may ask with proper time in advance, don't expect an immediate answer.

    I'd suggest being very clear in the message, so the escort doesn't have to message you back asking questions.

    Make a short intro
    Say what you are looking for, if any fav
    Don't ask what is not listed in her profile
    Check her agenda before asking if she is going to be available
    Suggest tentative dates, time, and duration for the desired appointment

    That has always worked with me.

    Sometimes you may get a short answer from the lady asking you to either call or message here, because that would be faster to set everything up.
    It may also be nice to talk over phone, sometimes, both sides may decide to either proceed or not after a short call.

    don't spam the escort mailbox.

    I'm sure, it she gets 1, maybe 2 messages from you, she may reply.

    If she finds 10 messages from you, it's spam list and block list for sure.

    Last, check her profile, what is the responsiveness of PMs. If you message someone that takes on average a week to reply, be patient.

    Most of the escorts don't open the web site everyday, they have a life outside here.

    What I noticed, many girls login once a week, renew their ads, check their messages, and vanish to return only next week.

    Anyway, best of luck
    Last edited by enfr; 23-06-23 at 22:47.
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