"Grade Inflation" on Reviews?

[NotMrAverage]

Several of the responses tend to prove my point about grade inflation - the idea that anything less than 5* is "bad" or will ruin people. That should not be so.

When everyone is 5* it is a completely unbalanced scale. Then the maximum is average, and there is no way to identify above average or exceptional performance.

To my mind 3* should be perfectly OK - a good experience, good service, and that would be an average mark.

If the grading scale is 1 to 5 stars, then I think of the scale as follows:
* Fails to deliver, or poor experience, avoid.
** Lacks frills, but delivers.
*** Solid experience.
**** Above average in several aspects
***** Exceptional experience in most aspects. Nothing average.

[NotMrAverage]

There are a number of reasons why there are so many 5* reviews.

1. Many of the escorts who would get less don't allow reviews.

If all meetings were subject to review then there would be a far higher proportion of those reviews in the 1* to 3* category.

2. Most punters don't review unless they are very happy or very disappointed.

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Interesting observations, most of which I would go along with. Where I would depart from your viewpoint is that you seem to regard anything less than 5* as bad.

[90sGunther]

You call ladies here average. I get the feeling you are instantly forgettable!

I'm not coming to the defence of the opening poster. It may or may not be a troll thread.

But I don't think he is calling women here average compared to the general population. He means that experiences with escorts may be excellent or wonderful and others may be disappointing and others may be as you say yourself "forgettable".
So across this range of experiences there will be an average which by definition will be less than 5 stars.
An "average" premiership midfielder will be average at that level but would be incredible in the championship or first division

Because you are still talking about woman and not about apples in shop. I think most of man try their best to say only positive and good things about us. Its so sensitive business. Its not only about our job, its also about our feelings. Iam sure you dont want to heart anyone. If something is really bad, talk with us in polite way, ask why is not possible to do some service etc. If you dont feel comfortable without rational reason, moove to other girl in future as everyone has different tastes. Show yourself your mirror, ask yourself if you do your best and give us good conditions to feel well in your company. Everything has two sides. And after all of this are you sure you want to give some other review than five stars? Anyway you can always say there in lines something but you should be always tactful and polite.

There are good escorts and bad escorts. I think clients are entitled to let people know when they have had a great time, or when they feel they have been sold a pup.

I acknowledge that for my own reasons I am another no reviews guy

[rockonallnite]

There is something called pm system, far better than the review system here. After 10 posts you can start using it...

[NotMrAverage]

But I don't think he is calling women here average compared to the general population. He means that experiences with escorts may be excellent or wonderful and others may be disappointing and others may be as you say yourself "forgettable".
So across this range of experiences there will be an average which by definition will be less than 5 stars.
An "average" premiership midfielder will be average at that level but would be incredible in the championship or first division



There are good escorts and bad escorts. I think clients are entitled to let people know when they have had a great time, or when they feel they have been sold a pup.

You sir, get an an above average grade for perceptiveness.

[TonyB]

I just tell it as it is.

If some young woman probably 20 years younger than me makes an effort to please me then that.gets a good score in my books.

I'll then give an honest review of what happened and others can make up their minds if this person might suit or not.

One person might not always suit my wants but she might suit another, and similarly I might find someone amazing and the next client might not agree
If she makes an effort to please and tries her best then what more can we ask.

Fuck with me and have a bad attitude and I'll reciprocate.

Escorts are human like the rest of us.
I'm not the best lover, but I'm a hell of a nice guy, so I deserve a good review for effort.
Same applies to most escorts.

[JennyIrish]

I've said it here before, a perfect body does not equal perfect sex, and I genuinley feel sorry for anyone who thinks it does, they dont know what they're missing.

A monster c*ck does not equal perfect sex, its impressive to look at, it can be fun, and let me say, its q myth that all clients are "dirty old men" gorgous, athletic (and yes famous in ireland) are a dime a dozen, but my 3 favourite lovers have average sized c*cks, average bodies, but for me the sex with with them is always so deliciously intense and mind blowing, so much of it has to do with chemistry and enjoying the company of the other person enough to be able to relax and let go, when things flow naturally rather than "69 first then doggie etc etc" it's a whole other experience.

I know I have amazing sexual skills, but it goes to another level if I am genuinley turned on, and I'd say it's the same for any woman.


For me, a comfortable, relaxed, discreet environment sets the scene and as my clients know, I'm partial to a spacious hotel suite.

These things have made AMAZING experiences for me.

But everyone is different. What do you believe are the things that make a truly 5 star experience as opposed to average?

[NotMrAverage]

I've said it here before, a perfect body does not equal perfect sex, and I genuinley feel sorry for anyone who thinks it does, they dont know what they're missing.

A monster c*ck does not equal perfect sex, its impressive to look at, it can be fun, and let me say, its q myth that all clients are "dirty old men" gorgous, athletic (and yes famous in ireland) are a dime a dozen, but my 3 favourite lovers have average sized c*cks, average bodies, but for me the sex with with them is always so deliciously intense and mind blowing, so much of it has to do with chemistry and enjoying the company of the other person enough to be able to relax and let go, when things flow naturally rather than "69 first then doggie etc etc" it's a whole other experience.

I know I have amazing sexual skills, but it goes to another level if I am genuinley turned on, and I'd say it's the same for any woman.


For me, a comfortable, relaxed, discreet environment sets the scene and as my clients know, I'm partial to a spacious hotel suite.

These things have made AMAZING experiences for me.

But everyone is different. What do you believe are the things that make a truly 5 star experience as opposed to average?

First off, I agree with what you say!

Is your question aimed at me, or everyone?

In any case, for me an exceptional experience is some variable combination of personal rapport, sexual chemistry, looks, and environment.
Being great in one factor can compensate for another, but that said personal hygiene and some personal chemistry are non-negotiable factors for me.
A woman can have great looks and a killer body, but if it is clear that she would rather be elsewhere, then so would I.
Catfishing is also a big negative for me.

[Joelegs]

I only write 5⭐ reviews because I only meet 5 ⭐ women!

[Launcelot]

I notice that the vast majority of reviews on here are 5* for everything.

That isn't credible. Most people are average, on average.

So, is it that the reviewers feel compelled to give all 5* reviews so as not to hurt their chances of a date with someone else, or of a repeat?

If this was Amazon reviews you would be right about 5* reviews and I would agree with your rating but everything is subjective.

It must be hard for SP to be rated, imagine if this was the w
Other way around.

Clearly reviews either reflect when it was great or if it wasn’t and so you need to take it into account.

Even exam results as skewed to follow a distribution curve as are staff reviews.

I personally don’t do reviews because who am I to judge or pass comment.

If everyone was a 5* person, the world would be perfect.

Timing, your mood, the ease with with an appointment is made, the venue, the looks, services, personality are all very subjective let alone the mood both parties are in.

Something the review says more about the client than about the SP or experience but I suspect we all factor it in.

Sometimes when there are multiple reviews from the same person then clearly it reflects that they have hit it off.

Reviews are useful however it reflect as much on the chemistry with the client.

Great post to get the discussion going. I don’t think we will every have the review system but it’s better than none.