Relationship with escort

[Buswanka69120]

Did you never have one good looking client?

[petered]

Always makes me wince when someone brings this topic up.

Anyone who convinces himself that he's anything more than a revenue stream to a working girl is deluding himself.

I speak from experience. But alas, it's a mistake that'll be made again and again and again by men everywhere, no matter what is said/advised by the many who have fallen into that particular hole.

[TommyH123]

Always makes me wince when someone brings this topic up.

Anyone who convinces himself that he's anything more than a revenue stream to a working girl is deluding himself.

I speak from experience. But alas, it's a mistake that'll be made again and again and again by men everywhere, no matter what is said/advised by the many who have fallen into that particular hole.

I made the mistake recently, devalued an arrangement , the experience, I’m not daft, it’s a transaction but I’ve never been made to feel like a “revenue stream” one or two bumps in a generally smooth road but mostly good times, its a respect thing, a two way street, as long as that is kept to the forefront then the fee is secondary, can be costly to forget that fact, mutual respect is the key to a good arrangement, not money because that’s found easily enough by both, respect takes time

[Larrii]

[JennyIrish]

I'm surprised no one has mentioned this before but I know of several escorts who are either married or in long term relationships. I had a 3 yr relationship with a European client.

I think European guys are more understanding of the difference between escort work and love. I'm really surprised at this thread, not all escorts are single and it seems some of you find that uncomprehencable!!

[Joelegs]

A very wise escort friend of mine once told that, escorts are women first and foremost. "Everything goes out the window the heart falls for another person" and escorts are not in control of their feelings anymore than another person.

I have always tried to be sensible when it comes to friendships with the escorts I visit regularly. Out of respect for each other there are boundaries to our friendship. I think they respect this and it has earned me their trust. When everyone in the room is relaxed it affords the freedom to get on with if and enjoy things for what they are.

With that said, if an escort and her client mutually fall for each other there is nothing different to any other people falling for each other. The key word is mutually here, things can get very messy when a client turns out to be a love struck stalker.

I always believed what happen between two people is their business. I have read posts on EI where clients have played out their interactions with a ladies like a soap opera. I never kiss and tell. If I get on well with an advertiser that's between us and plastering it all over the forum is a shure way to f***k up a friendship or even a relationship with any woman. I can guarantee anyone that if a guy did have a special friendship or relationship with an escort it would be severely damaged by plastering it all over EI in installments.

So even my cynical mind has been changed. Why couldn't an escort fall in love with her client. Falling in love is one of the oldest stories in human history. However, the first part of this "Pretty Woman" style romance is trust!

[Forceuser]

I had a 3 yr relationship with a European client.

no no no, peterd has told us that isn't possible above
u must have imagined it

[Clubcard]

Women in general don't "need" a man and very rarely "want " one.

I don't need a woman in my life at the minute because my want of a ride is fulfilled here.

Escorts are very strong willed and resilient women. I admire them for putting up with some of the stuff clients put them through. Why on earth would they want a client as a partner?

Once a punter always a punter

[Irelandbeautyyy]

Women in general don't "need" a man and very rarely "want " one.

I don't need a woman in my life at the minute because my want of a ride is fulfilled here.

Escorts are very strong willed and resilient women. I admire them for putting up with some of the stuff clients put them through. Why on earth would they want a client as a partner?

Once a punter always a punter

Hmmm… you can be right…

What about baby? Of course we can make it without our partner but it would be unfair for a child to have only one parent.

What about some life support? Love? We can receive it from familly&friends&animals but its still not fully fledged.

And maybe because your “want of a ride” is fulfilled and this is why you don’t need a woman then, its also maybe why ladies don’t want guys. I also don’t take serious someone who wants a ride lol. Does it make some sense? Show a woman you have more than something between your legs and she maybe change her opinion - just general meaning about guys

[Clubcard]

Hmmm… you can be right…

What about baby? Of course we can make it without our partner but it would be unfair for a child to have only one parent.

What about some life support? Love? We can receive it from familly&friends&animals but its still not fully fledged.

And maybe because your “want of a ride” is fulfilled and this is why you don’t need a woman then, its also maybe why ladies don’t want guys. I also don’t take serious someone who wants a ride lol. Does it make some sense? Show a woman you have more than something between your legs and she maybe change her opinion - just general meaning about guys

Yes it is unfair for a child to only have one parent. Sometimes that's just the way it is. It becomes the normal.