Unconditional it needs to be

[bananabox999]

Spock is your new name make it so

Might be a marginal improvement over the previous names

Why do i bring these things on myself lol

[beautyaddict]

Might be a marginal improvement over the previous names

Why do i bring these things on myself lol

BillBaileyFumbletitsSpock

Better ?

[bananabox999]

BillBaileyFumbletitsSpock

Better ?

Perfect
Fumbletits has a ring to it

[Rockerman]

Perfect
Fumbletits has a ring to it

Stay on topic Spock .

[bananabox999]

Stay on topic Spock .

Fineeee.

Everyone be more betterer.

No really it is a serious topic. Im sure many have encountered stalker like behaviour and its not on. So hopefully anyone reading this thread takes note, iv been a tool at times, no denying that, but would never harass a girl in any way intentionally.

[igor10]

Fineeee.

Everyone be more betterer.

No really it is a serious topic. Im sure many have encountered stalker like behaviour and its not on. So hopefully anyone reading this thread takes note, iv been a tool at times, no denying that, but would never harass a girl in any way intentionally.

I think as men we probably all been obsess as some point with a woman , I have loved every woman I have been with , but obsession is not love

Obsession can be a dangerous thing and one needs to be smart enough to understand which line not to cross (which personally I never did and never will) .

For example over 20 years ago I dated for few months a stripper , I met her at the club , became a regular and then one thing let to another till we started dating and from that moment on I have never went to the club or waited for her outside after work (they had bouncers taking care of that and bringing the girls home for safety)

Now she would tell me over the months about how many people would wait for her outside the club at the end of the night and some were bit crazy , with one in particular that got very obsess with her to the point that got banned from the club and started to wait for her outside

One night She asked me to pick her up after work and when I did I noticed this guy not only waiting for her outside but following us with the car , she was terrified (actually hardly remember anyone being so scared) and begged me not to confront him (which I wanted to) so I decided instead to loose the guy and when I got sure he was no longer following us I brought her back at her place and stayed with her

She had some rough days (and did not come back to work) until she decided to move to another city and not to work as stripper anymore then we slowly lost touch as predictable . Hope she's well wherever she is

[TommyH123]

Just forget the “favour” as soon as you complete it, it’s a gift, end of story

[Joelegs]

I have rules.

There used to be a guy on here who wore his heart on his sleeve. I don't know if this post is about him. I hope he is OK. I started to type him a message one night with friendly advice and deleted it because it was none of my business and it was up to him if he wanted to make an arse out if himself on a public forum.

1. Never fall in love.
A client can have his favourite regular or regulars, but it doesn't mean they have to love a girl. This puts everyone in an awkward position. I'm not saying that an escort can't fall for her client, but don't get great GFE mixed up with her wanting to become your real girlfriend. If you end up in a relationship with an escort don't expect it to be like what you have now. Meeting escorts is fantasy, escorts are real people with real feelings and every relationship is tough. It may suprise you both when both people find out who each other really is.

2. Never put an escort in an award position.
Read rule No. 1 for the prime example of how to f**k this one up.

3. Friendship has boundaries, both ways.
Maybe a client and escort can become friends, but that friendship has boundaries both ways that have to be respected. You may like a person for all kinds of reasons, but it doesn't mean she is going to move in with you and live happily ever after.

4. What happens between two people is between two people.
Never kiss and tell in a PM and especially in public on the forum. Those who do must be a real d**k to think that escorts and their friends don't read these pages and that some punters on here would throw their granny under the bus in a heartbeat.

People don't realise when something is posted on the internet it is there for life, or in EI case a few seconds before it is deleted, I'm only joking 😃

5. Always be professional.
This works both ways, a client and escort has a professional relationship with eachother. It can be fun and doesn't have to be cold, but it is still professional. There are some things that strain this relationship, this includes lending money to people. See rules 1, 2 and 3 to see how to f**k this up.

6. Always be a gentleman and be respectful.
If a lady knows her client is respectful and a gentleman she will relax as she builds trust in him, never betray that trust. See rules 1-4 to see how clients f**k this one up.

7. Ask nothing in return, expect no special treatment and take nothing for granted.
If an escort gives a client extra time because she decided to, here isn't the place to boast about it.
See rules 2,3 and 6 to see how guys f**k this one up.

8. Know when it is time to say goodbye.
This is a hard one, but sometimes all good things must come to an end. Perhaps a lady moves away or retires. Perhaps the lines get too blurry, this goes both ways but primarily it is usually clients who f**k this up. There is sadly a time when walking away may be the hardest, but best thing to do in the long run.

9. Never ask an escort a favour that will put her in a position. Ask for nothing from an escort and expect nothing in return for a favour or act of kindness that you do. Do something because you want to do and not to gain leverage.

10. Have fun
Enjoy it for what it is and not for what you want to be. See all of the above to see how clients f**k up when they get the wrong idea.

No doubt some may disagree and that is OK, but these simple rules have worked for me.

Joe 👍

[bananabox999]

I have rules.

There used to be a guy on here who wore his heart on his sleeve. I don't know if this post is about him. I hope he is OK. I started to type him a message one night with friendly advice and deleted it because it was none of my business and it was up to him if he wanted to make an arse out if himself on a public forum.

1. Never fall in love.
A client can have his favourite regular or regulars, but it doesn't mean they have to love a girl. This puts everyone in an awkward position. I'm not saying that an escort can't fall for her client, but don't get great GFE mixed up with her wanting to become your real girlfriend. If you end up in a relationship with an escort don't expect it to be like what you have now. Meeting escorts is fantasy, escorts are real people with real feelings and every relationship is tough. It may suprise you both when both people find out who each other really is.

2. Never put an escort in an award position.
Read rule No. 1 for the prime example of how to f**k this one up.

3. Friendship has boundaries, both ways.
Maybe a client and escort can become friends, but that friendship has boundaries both ways that have to be respected. You may like a person for all kinds of reasons, but it doesn't mean she is going to move in with you and live happily ever after.

4. What happens between two people is between two people.
Never kiss and tell in a PM and especially in public on the forum. Those who do must be a real d**k to think that escorts and their friends don't read these pages and that some punters on here would throw their granny under the bus in a heartbeat.

People don't realise when something is posted on the internet it is there for life, or in EI case a few seconds before it is deleted, I'm only joking 😃

5. Always be professional.
This works both ways, a client and escort has a professional relationship with eachother. It can be fun and doesn't have to be cold, but it is still professional. There are some things that strain this relationship, this includes lending money to people. See rules 1, 2 and 3 to see how to f**k this up.

6. Always be a gentleman and be respectful.
If a lady knows her client is respectful and a gentleman she will relax as she builds trust in him, never betray that trust. See rules 1-4 to see how clients f**k this one up.

7. Ask nothing in return, expect no special treatment and take nothing for granted.
If an escort gives a client extra time because she decided to, here isn't the place to boast about it.
See rules 2,3 and 6 to see how guys f**k this one up.

8. Know when it is time to say goodbye.
This is a hard one, but sometimes all good things must come to an end. Perhaps a lady moves away or retires. Perhaps the lines get too blurry, this goes both ways but primarily it is usually clients who f**k this up. There is sadly a time when walking away may be the hardest, but best thing to do in the long run.

9. Never ask an escort a favour that will put her in a position. Ask for nothing from an escort and expect nothing in return for a favour or act of kindness that you do. Do something because you want to do and not to gain leverage.

10. Have fun
Enjoy it for what it is and not for what you want to be. See all of the above to see how clients f**k up when they get the wrong idea.

No doubt some may disagree and that is OK, but these simple rules have worked for me.

Joe 👍

Good write up joe, you always put in the effort.

Its was in reference to something that happened yesterday morning. I'll not drag it back up.

[igor10]

I have rules.

There used to be a guy on here who wore his heart on his sleeve. I don't know if this post is about him. I hope he is OK. I started to type him a message one night with friendly advice and deleted it because it was none of my business and it was up to him if he wanted to make an arse out if himself on a public forum.

1. Never fall in love.
A client can have his favourite regular or regulars, but it doesn't mean they have to love a girl. This puts everyone in an awkward position. I'm not saying that an escort can't fall for her client, but don't get great GFE mixed up with her wanting to become your real girlfriend. If you end up in a relationship with an escort don't expect it to be like what you have now. Meeting escorts is fantasy, escorts are real people with real feelings and every relationship is tough. It may suprise you both when both people find out who each other really is.

2. Never put an escort in an award position.
Read rule No. 1 for the prime example of how to f**k this one up.

3. Friendship has boundaries, both ways.
Maybe a client and escort can become friends, but that friendship has boundaries both ways that have to be respected. You may like a person for all kinds of reasons, but it doesn't mean she is going to move in with you and live happily ever after.

4. What happens between two people is between two people.
Never kiss and tell in a PM and especially in public on the forum. Those who do must be a real d**k to think that escorts and their friends don't read these pages and that some punters on here would throw their granny under the bus in a heartbeat.

People don't realise when something is posted on the internet it is there for life, or in EI case a few seconds before it is deleted, I'm only joking 😃

5. Always be professional.
This works both ways, a client and escort has a professional relationship with eachother. It can be fun and doesn't have to be cold, but it is still professional. There are some things that strain this relationship, this includes lending money to people. See rules 1, 2 and 3 to see how to f**k this up.

6. Always be a gentleman and be respectful.
If a lady knows her client is respectful and a gentleman she will relax as she builds trust in him, never betray that trust. See rules 1-4 to see how clients f**k this one up.

7. Ask nothing in return, expect no special treatment and take nothing for granted.
If an escort gives a client extra time because she decided to, here isn't the place to boast about it.
See rules 2,3 and 6 to see how guys f**k this one up.

8. Know when it is time to say goodbye.
This is a hard one, but sometimes all good things must come to an end. Perhaps a lady moves away or retires. Perhaps the lines get too blurry, this goes both ways but primarily it is usually clients who f**k this up. There is sadly a time when walking away may be the hardest, but best thing to do in the long run.

9. Never ask an escort a favour that will put her in a position. Ask for nothing from an escort and expect nothing in return for a favour or act of kindness that you do. Do something because you want to do and not to gain leverage.

10. Have fun
Enjoy it for what it is and not for what you want to be. See all of the above to see how clients f**k up when they get the wrong idea.

No doubt some may disagree and that is OK, but these simple rules have worked for me.

Joe 👍

Thousand percent Joe

Extremely well said 👏