Appreciation post for EI punters/providers. Sharing my first experience in this hobby
Hi guys, wanted to make a post after being a long time lurker. I wanted to thank all the lovely people on this forum that made taking the plunge into this new world so easy by sharing their experience through reviews and especially the active posters who share their wisdom. This post is to encourage anyone who had been uncomfortable with the idea of seeing escorts to at least try it. One of the best things, I have done in a while.
I have been hesitant to try the delights this webiste had to offer until about 3 weeks ago where I finally bit the bullet and went out to see my first provider here in Ireland.I had visited escorts in the past when I have travelled to countries like Switzerland,Germany and Netherlands as a thing of curiosty and just to have some fun. After a couple of lonely years over the pandemic and just being stuck in a rut, working from home etc, I just said fuck it and called up a massage service provider from the website to arrange a meeting. It was an awkward encounter to say the least.
My heart was racing as I got my driver to drop me off at the location for the incall and every step I took up to that apartment felt immense. Setting up over the phone beforehand was nerve wrecking, felt so timid describing what I wanted us to do together, what the prices were, how long etc. Although I had fun, I couldnt immerse myself in the situation and once she adminstered the happy ending I had a sense of numbness where I wasnt sure if I was satisfied. I think it stemmed from it not being what I imagined it would feel like.
These past three weeks I have meet and played with some of the most beautiful women I have ever laid my eyes upon. Truly an other worldy experience delivered by some of the lovely ladies around here. I am lucky to be in Dublin where there is such a concentration of talen.
I had some reservations as I started out, it was hard to enjoy the sessions at the start knowing that the person across from me not an intimate partner but a stranger who I have just handed over some currency to enjoy their company. This is because of my past experiences in RLDs and FKKs where the women treat you like a machine and it all feels to robotic. I couldn't get the shame of paying for such a thing out of my head and it definetly stopped me from enjoying myself. My first escort I had visited for a full session was Sexy Kitty. She made the whole thing feel so effortless and addressed my nervousness with such delicateness that it all washed away as soon as we started having fun.
Once the floodgates opened, I was hooked to say the least. Thanks to all the reviews that are made on the website, I chose some well reviewed women and with each experience I felt more comfortable sexually. For me, it took a while to shake off the cobwebs as I have not been active sexually in about 3 years. I have been leaving reviews as I visit so I can help others find their ideal girl but since the majority of the girls I have seen are opt-out of reviews I have only wrote three so far and some in drafts to be released.
There are still a few things I have wanted to ask fellow punters/providers about since I have started indulging in this hobby so I will leave my questions here.
When meeting a escort for the first time, how do you discuss how you want the session to go ? I can't remember which lady posted this on the forum but I think it is good advice for any punter, the girls aren't mind readers, communicating is really important if you want to have a good time. Other than listing the favorites I would like, there are times where I would like a certain experience (more intimate sessions, conversational, more domanineering). I find it takes the magic out of a session when I have to direct how I want the session. Certain girls are pros and can pick up what I am going for and play into the whole fantasy.
I have been kind of seeing a lot of different escorts and haven't been able to see one person twice yet. Spoiled for choice tbh. I wanted to know if some punters who see a girl regularly or ladies that have regulars. Is it customary to have a more personal experience as you see the same person again again as you build rapport ? I treat the women I see with the upmost respect but sometimes I would like it be more dynamic, change positions, more foreplay maybe some light domination. Its hard to live out this fantasy, meeting for the first time I feel which makes sense but with more visits can this change ?
I have had issue with performance during some visits, especially if I am backed up or the girl is super attractive. I have read on here and other forums that some guys jack off before the appointment to last longer, does this help ? I am going to buy some thicker condoms to adjust the feeling in hopes of trying to go for longer. Any one try this before ?
Lastly, I have been wanting to try COB or CIM soon. Is it worth the extra if the girls provides this ? With previously partners in my personal life I always shyed away from this as I felt it was degrading for the girl and I still have a desire to try this but usually never ask for it. Does CIM meaning swallowing ?
For anyone who is apprehensive of seeing an escort, choose a well reviewed provider and go for a longer booking. The price is worth it and then some. Make sure to let them know what you are looking for and they are more than willing to make it come true (within reason). And treat them with the respect they deserve, be on time, be clean, follow their rules.
I apologize for rambling, I hope this post and any replies in the thread will turn at least one lurker into a punter. I have some plans to visit some girls such as Stephanie and Party Queen Amber as a reward at the end of this Quarter. Stay tuned for the reviews. I have been giddy anytime I am scrolling through EI looking for a new person to have fun with. Thanks to all the providers I have visited so far and all the ones I am yet to see
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Originally Posted by GlickZim
