All I can say is , because I'm seriously inarticulate , I started meeting ladies from here a wee while back, I studied the forum met, some solid intelligent punters, and met some incredible people because of that, who recommended me that I meet certain other people. I think this is how it's supposed to work. The review system has a certain value for sure, it's informative for ladies too by the way, there's levels as they say. I don't just read a review as positive or negative I look at the language used are they a cave man or an intelligent respectful person, I'm interested in character, call me judgemental by all means but I like to think there's people who value that, not jut faves and acts and that's all, you'd like to find someone you can genuinely vibe with a bit in the time you have with them. I Love the Ladies who come out and comment on the forums and you can see their character, it takes balls no pun intended, and some of us appreciate you more because , well you've got balls. I love people with balls , not dudes though but it's become fractious and unpleasant from an outsiders perspective. There are people here who are genuine, on both sides can we accept that not everybody is on the same page, some of us have good intentions of being the best we can towards each other. I think that's worth acknowledging too .