I think you make a great point there about the clock,and being conscious of time but here's a question which I think is valid too. What if you're a fella that doesn't get off easily? Admittedly I haven't read the whole thread but I'm thinking it's mainly about the male being the recipient, feel free to correct me 100% what if you're more inclined to be a giver as a fella in that scenario ?, and what you enjoy is the nuance of the experience and consider it more important than the big ending so to speak. I'm curious as I know there's a pile of different opinions about what constitutes a great experience , but it's a genuine point of view and I'm curious to see if anyone else thinks the same way.