Provider's Location - Access

[EscortInspector]

I think if you're already at the stage of knowing the address/number and are told to "call me when you're at the door for the code", it's fair game to let yourself into the block if the opportunity arises. It's not like you've let yourself into her apartment unannounced.

oh them disappearing posts again, thought it was me and just being mannerly and replying, byeeee

[WeeJimmy]

I really hate calling a girl from outside a block to get the access code. No matter how well I try and time it, I always standing there aimlessly, waiting for her to pick up again, fumbling with the code...I know I wouldn't bat an eyelid walking around seeing the same (unless it was at a regular location!), but it just makes me feel incredibly self-conscious and uncomfortable, probably the least enjoyable aspect of a meet for me. If the door has been left ajar, or a person holds it for me, I'm 100% getting inside. It's happened a few times and the girl has never had an issue. I think if you're already at the stage of knowing the address/number and are told to "call me when you're at the door for the code", it's fair game to let yourself into the block if the opportunity arises. It's not like you've let yourself into her apartment unannounced.

If the girl had a bad reaction to you getting in without the code, possibly she may be in an apartment overlooking the entry and uses it as a way to suss out a client before letting them in?

people read too much into it really,
the amount of times I was approaching the buzz code door and met a couple coming out and they would hold the door open for me until i'm in,
I'd look a right eejit going in by them and then coming out again and gently closing the door and ringing the escort for the entry code to let me back in and the couple outside at the car think I'm the right Gobshite.

[MidlifeCrisis]

I think the reason not every provider handles this the same way is that there is a trade-off between safety and discretion.

Amy's policy (which I really like) of providing the code and directions by text a little while before you arrive makes it really easy to walk in discreetly as if entering your own home, and takes away any anxiety about whether you are expected etc. This is perfect when she already knows the client, but for a first visit there is a small element of risk. The text gives the new visitor access right up to her hallway, so I can understand girls not wanting to do that.

Some more cautious girls ask you to phone from the building front door, I assume because they can get a look at you by camera before buzzing you in. That is safer for them - they can see that you are not too scary looking, and that there is only one of you (I have heard horror stories about girls realising that a group of men are trying to gain access) - but it does make it a bit harder for you to look like you belong. If there is no one else around it works fine, but I have had a few awkward spots such as the one that started this thread, but also random stuff like someone waiting for a taxi right beside the keypad. An experienced client will usually be able to improvise and deal with it without seeming unnatural, but if you are new and nervous it is not easy to make the right choices. Also, it can be really hard to hear instructions when you are outside with wind and traffic noise.

I think a good policy for the more cautious escort is to pick a spot where they can see you (eg "text me from outside the newsagents shop when you arrive") and then text full instructions. That is pretty safe and very discreet.

[Stephanie]

people read too much into it really,
the amount of times I was approaching the buzz code door and met a couple coming out and they would hold the door open for me until i'm in,
I'd look a right eejit going in by them and then coming out again and gently closing the door and ringing the escort for the entry code to let me back in and the couple outside at the car think I'm the right Gobshite.

You Would be a right eejit if they have the door open for you , you go in and then come out

to buzz the intercom .

You’d be right to say ‘thanks’ to whoever had the door for you , and casually keep it open

but still buzz your provider who is expecting to let you in .

[EscortInspector]

I'll always be a fan of the lady dropping the key from her balcony for me to catch, very Romeo-and-Juliette-esque

[WeeJimmy]

You Would be a right eejit if they have the door open for you , you go in and then come out

to buzz the intercom .

You’d be right to say ‘thanks’ to whoever had the door for you , and casually keep it open

but still buzz your provider who is expecting to let you in .

strangely when in Ireland the intercoms seldom worked and when it did was crackling and these were the fancy places, thanks to the person opening the door comes naturally, like I said her rules and you must follow them to the best of your ability

so Steph if you had a client coming and he followed your instructions but the door / intercom developed a fault and he could not gain entry, would you go down and let the gentleman in yourself

[Stephanie]

strangely when in Ireland the intercoms seldom worked and when it did was crackling and these were the fancy places, thanks to the person opening the door comes naturally, like I said her rules and you must follow them to the best of your ability

so Steph if you had a client coming and he followed your instructions but the door / intercom developed a fault and he could not gain entry, would you go down and let the gentleman in yourself

Unfortunately it has happened , yes I went downstairs to let him in .

Then I stopped entertaining until Intercom was fixed .

[WeeJimmy]

I'll always be a fan of the lady dropping the key from her balcony for me to catch, very Romeo-and-Juliette-esque

Some craic inspector, I met a few Romanians ladies years back in Fundalk one weekend I was home and were such sweethearts and will always remember them,
they were in a block and on top floor and door was not working
said to me to walk back and look up and she drop the key down to me, she wrapped key in one of her panties and put a peg in it and if felt like like heaven as it headed towards me, got the key and let myself in and had a great time and laugh and still have those knickers stuck on the inside of wardrobe door

[WeeJimmy]

Unfortunately it has happened , yes I went downstairs to let him in .

Then I stopped entertaining until Intercom was fixed .

sometimes things don't go according to plan so you make the best of it at the time

[EscortInspector]

Some craic inspector, I met a few Romanians ladies years back in Fundalk one weekend I was home and were such sweethearts and will always remember them,
they were in a block and on top floor and door was not working
said to me to walk back and look up and she drop the key down to me, she wrapped key in one of her panties and put a peg in it and if felt like like heaven as it headed towards me, got the key and let myself in and had a great time and laugh and still have those knickers stuck on the inside of wardrobe door

That's the essence of poetry right there Jimmy!