some people can't hold their drink & really shouldn't drink at all clearly this halfwit was very drunk so maybe u need to be more careful with very drunk clients in the future sorry to hear...
some people can't hold their drink & really shouldn't drink at all clearly this halfwit was very drunk so maybe u need to be more careful with very drunk clients in the future sorry to hear...
for staying with it well over time. I know the climax is definitive proof of a job well done but, for me, it is only a small part of the overall experience. It wouldn't bother me too much if I didn't, as long as the encounter was pleasurable and the lady was as nice as you seem.
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The Truth is out there.
First off all i used drink but dont anymore and the fact was i got really mellow when i drank,the more
i drank more relaxed i got,never had any bother or hassle after drink.
My personal belief is that the way a person behaves after drink is the way they really are,it releases
their inhibitions and their true caracter comes out,to use drink as an excuse for bad behaviour is
unacceptable to me. People may appear as nice friendly etc when sober but do u ever really know
whats actually going on in a persons head,we all have met the really nice person to our faces and
they will rip us asunder behind our backs.So for me no excuses u behave badly with drink thats who u are. There is an old saying"Put in the drink and whats inside comes out" and this rings very true to me
PS Ailish my advise to u, dont see this guy again tell him straight up his behaviour is totally unacceptable and that an apology
would be cold comfort for what u had to endure,to be honest in my eyes he is only thrash and if u value urself u wont see people
with his attitude
Last edited by ber; 26-09-09 at 21:40.
"What you think when you're sober, comes out when you're drunk"............
I also believe this to be true, to many people blame bad behaviour on drink.....
I'm like you Ber, I become very mellow with drink, unless I'm celebrating, the I like to kick up the heels a bit, got me in youtube a few times...........
But I've met a few people along the way that have given up drink, and have freely admitted that they just wern't nice with drink on board, so they gave up. I really admire that in a person, to realise that about themselves and to do something about it......... Fair play.........
"It's far easier to fight for principles than to live up to them."
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yes no i wont be seeing him again and i got an apology over text for his "grumpy behaviour"
will never be giving someone who has drink on the benefit of the doubt again.
Drink brings out the truth. The essense of a person.
That is why it is bad or good from person to person.
In general, alcohol is a good thing. A preservant in fact. People who drink red wine will grow old with clear skin, good hearts, and will look far better then other people their age.
But alcohol "drink of the gods" is called this for the factor that it leads to truth and understanding.
Do you want the truth always??
NO.
Its sometimes NOT best to know the truth!
You saw signs already of his essense. "You like a good debate" there is his essense.
He likes to argue. You know this. You just saw it in a controlled dose that he managed soberly.
Give him the drink of the gods and watch the truth come out.
I dont see drunk men unless:
I have seen them before and the signs of them are humour, chattiness, lovers, artistic, romantic... qualities on the positive side. With drink, these are enhanced, truth gets bigger and bolder and then I quite enjoy be a spectator of their essense at its strongest.
If I have a client that I am able to "control" certain negative things then no way would I see him drunk! Like today, my client cant follow directions. I have to keep myself patient with him. He also asks alot of personal questions that make me nervous. If he was to call me drunk, Id never agree to see him. I can guess he will wonder my building, knocking on doors, loiter in the hallway, then when he asks personal questions and I tell him I dont talk about these things, he would probably get very pushy. He is already pushy, but his pushiness would be stronger.
Only accept drunk clients if you saw them before sober and they were not having any negative signs.
If I were you, I would not see him again. For a few reasons. You will never trust him again. You will now be scared of the debating you used to enjoy because you knew there were limits, where as now you know he has no boundary. You are giving your body to him, and after treating you this way, you know yourself, you will not feel good having him holding you and going inside you. He is also dangerous. If he is yelling at you and not being discrete, then he puts you at risk. Police could be called by neighbors and you questioned. You MUST always care for yourself first and your client 2nd. If he is putting you in this much stress and danger, you must not see him. Who cares if he apologizes or not. That is not important at all. What is important is that you sum up the situation and see that this man is a danger to you and must not be seen. In fact the less you communicate with him the better. Dont text him about the other night. Dont ask an apology. Just drop him... fast and quietly.