I Wouldn’t be a Moaner …

[Stephanie]

…

and I am Not moaning Now ..

I am just still in a bit of a shock I suppose , feel the need to let it out ,

lest I end up chewing on it uselessly ..

Just had an appointment with a young man who has pestered me for a

30min appointment for over a year , my answer always being : I don’t offer that .

So in the end now he made a One Hr booking —

Arrived , immediately got at trying to paw me ( which of course I stopped ) , when

chatting for the few minutes tried to pull at my dress .. and normally at this point

I would tell a guest to Leave : we don’t jell , different vibes , different expectations .. ,

and I should have ! ended the appointment right there and then , politely ask him

to go . : I do Not know why I didn’t . I suppose giving him benefit of the doubt : he’s used to

the short bookings , I suppose in 30min appointments the dynamic would be very different .

: I figured I can manage the course of the meeting .

Sure enough , he’s off to the shower , I change , set the scene , ..

Long story short : he smelled ! There . : I asked him to go back and wash better ; he laughingly said

“Oh it’s just a bit of urine” . I said What !? He said “went to bathroom and didn’t wash” .

Like What The Actual F !!?

Asked him to wash . He said No . I told him to get dressed and go .

Gave money back .

He was ticked off , said I lost a lot of business now because he was going to

recommend me to ten of his friends .

Omg ! Birds of a feather !

And the lesson of the story : should Never disregard instinct / give No benefit of the doubt .

And Half Hour clients are not necessarily a good fit for a One Hr booking’s dynamic .



What this lad failed to realize - even after I told him , - is that I am here at My pleasure ,

not at His . I do what I do for My enjoyment , not at the whim of a visitor .

I gather that this one is used to doing things His way , and bend girls this-way-and-that ,

and encounter nothing but compliance .

Not at My house .

At My house it is My rules at My pleasure !

It has served me well , and I wouldn’t know how to be any other way - nor would I want to !

But oh boy , I Am ticked off for having been in such a situation : nothing like this has ever

happened to me before !

/ Have thrown people out before , but they scurried off , not have an attitude on top of it !

// just before this incident , my booking right before this misadventure : I had a lovely Galway man

come back to me second time in a week’s time : meeting run just as I like - even though

he too would’ve been a Half Hour guy before . But He respected the way I like to do things ,

and found that it suited him too : no rush , it is ease and comfort , leisurely time enough

to enjoy each other’s company to the fullest in a relaxed easygoing atmosphere . My Way .

Grrrr .