Originally Posted by
Stephanie
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and I am Not moaning Now ..
I am just still in a bit of a shock I suppose , feel the need to let it out ,
lest I end up chewing on it uselessly ..
Just had an appointment with a young man who has pestered me for a
30min appointment for over a year , my answer always being : I don’t offer that .
So in the end now he made a One Hr booking —
Arrived , immediately got at trying to paw me ( which of course I stopped ) , when
chatting for the few minutes tried to pull at my dress .. and normally at this point
I would tell a guest to Leave : we don’t jell , different vibes , different expectations .. ,
and I should have ! ended the appointment right there and then , politely ask him
to go . : I do Not know why I didn’t . I suppose giving him benefit of the doubt : he’s used to
the short bookings , I suppose in 30min appointments the dynamic would be very different .
: I figured I can manage the course of the meeting .
Sure enough , he’s off to the shower , I change , set the scene , ..
Long story short : he smelled ! There . : I asked him to go back and wash better ; he laughingly said
“Oh it’s just a bit of urine” . I said What !? He said “went to bathroom and didn’t wash” .
Like What The Actual F !!?
Asked him to wash . He said No . I told him to get dressed and go .
Gave money back .
He was ticked off , said I lost a lot of business now because he was going to
recommend me to ten of his friends .
Omg ! Birds of a feather !
And the lesson of the story : should Never disregard instinct / give No benefit of the doubt .
And Half Hour clients are not necessarily a good fit for a One Hr booking’s dynamic .
What this lad failed to realize - even after I told him , - is that I am here at My pleasure ,
not at His . I do what I do for My enjoyment , not at the whim of a visitor .
I gather that this one is used to doing things His way , and bend girls this-way-and-that ,
and encounter nothing but compliance .
Not at My house .
At My house it is My rules at My pleasure !
It has served me well , and I wouldn’t know how to be any other way - nor would I want to !
But oh boy , I Am ticked off for having been in such a situation : nothing like this has ever
happened to me before !
/ Have thrown people out before , but they scurried off , not have an attitude on top of it !
// just before this incident , my booking right before this misadventure : I had a lovely Galway man
come back to me second time in a week’s time : meeting run just as I like - even though
he too would’ve been a Half Hour guy before . But He respected the way I like to do things ,
and found that it suited him too : no rush , it is ease and comfort , leisurely time enough
to enjoy each other’s company to the fullest in a relaxed easygoing atmosphere . My Way .
Grrrr .
Stephanie
I Wouldn’t be a Moaner …
I do what I want. I cannot do otherwise.
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) , just a lovely day x
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