Concerned

[bmw528]

Hi Amy

Thanks for your response..
She was holding the phone at such a tilt as the lens was pointed in a direct line with my face. It looked an unnatural way to be holding the phone other than positioning it to take a snap. Plus her facial expression, it immediately sat with me - that gut instinct you get of "what was that about, she did not just do that did she...?"

I had to think quickly so I decided to say nothing as it was too late. If I asked she would simply deny she took the photo (awkward) and I wouldn't be the sort of person to start demanding that she show me her phone.. so I said nothing, but as I said, I'm 99% sure of my instinct she took a photo of me. It's no major biggy, not as if I am a celebrity.. just found it peculiar as to what was the motive..

If you ve met this lady before, not once, but eight times ,then you must have felt comfortable in her company and vice versa. Its a bit disrespectful to the ladies on this forum to bring something like this up as it paints a bad picture of the way things are to other users. If you have your suspicions then maybe dont bother visiting her.

[JennyIrish]

Hi all..
just wondering if anyone has come across this before:

I recently made a visit to my favourite girl from on this site.. I've had at least 8 encounters with her over a number of years so she is quite familiar with me and I her. She is an unbelievable escort, I mean unbelievable at what she does, hence my repeat visits.. However something has left me concerned and wondering after my last visit recently.

When I walked in to her apartment hallway and the door closed, we greated as normal and I noticed her phone in her hand was pointed at me and I am 99% certain she was taking a sneaky photo of me! which alarmed me.. I didn't say anything about my suspicion as I didn't want to dampen the mood. But ever since I have been left wondering why she would do that - is it innocent or could there be something more sinister? Could I be the victim of blackmail or my photo and ph number uploaded to social media identifying me as a consumer of flesh in this country of twitching curtains? In a prior visit I recall her asking me which village I was from which perhaps has made me even more paranoid.

Any advice to settle me greatly appreciated

You're worrying about nothing. If you've been seeing her a few years she can established escort this is so unlikely. I doubt she was taking a picture but if you're convinced that she was it could be for a really silly innocent reason. I highly doubt shes trying to blackmail you why dont you ask her directly

[huntingdon]

Haven't a clue what you are on about.. I was asking people to volunteer opinions about one particular incident with one particular person.. where was I disrespectful to a group of ladies? Don't try being a defender of a righteous set of principles as you look foolish...

[huntingdon]

You're worrying about nothing. If you've been seeing her a few years she can established escort this is so unlikely. I doubt she was taking a picture but if you're convinced that she was it could be for a really silly innocent reason. I highly doubt shes trying to blackmail you why dont you ask her directly

Thanks very much Jenny.. my mind has been put at a somewhat easy thanks to some sensible responses on this thread.. next time maybe I should just pluck up the courage to ask the lady in the first place

[Mij]

I doubt a photo was taken, if you know her well and get on well I wouldn't be concerned.

But let's say she took a photo of you walking in the door, that proves nothing.
If there was a selfie style photo of the pair of you naked on the bed you'd have a lot of explaining to do alright, might be a nice souvenir to have of a visit if you wanted to put a positive spin on it though.

Don't worry about it and move on.

[Clubcard]

Another very plausible reason would be it was her personal phone and trying to hide what was on the screen or her work phone for the same reason if she is very discrete. I'd see it as a plus if that was the case.

More often than not some girls leave their phones lying around on silent while countless messages and call alerts appear on the screen.

[TonyB]

I've come across a few concealed cameras in my time.
On top of wardrobes in a black bag.
In a small alarm clock. I discovered it because I bought to the same one on eBay as someone was taking coins from my work desk.
And a few in hall ways or apartments.
And how many haven't I found?

This said I think it's in the minority.

On her phone in her hand is odd.
I would think she did take your photo, either that or your really paranoid. But this said I can't think of a reason behind it.

Either way I wouldn't worry about it.

[bmw528]

Haven't a clue what you are on about.. I was asking people to volunteer opinions about one particular incident with one particular person.. where was I disrespectful to a group of ladies? Don't try being a defender of a righteous set of principles as you look foolish...

Probably not as foolish as you thinking that someone as you say is a well established lady wants your photo.

[AmbiValent]

If I recall correctly a very well known (now retired) escort openly posted that she photographed all her clients. She was probably just trolling though, who knows......

OP, if the escort really wanted your photo then, as tonyb alluded to, there's far more discreet ways to do it than taking the risk of obviously taking a pic of you.

Keep us posted though if you get a blackmail note in the post.

[Mrbean76]

Probably not as foolish as you thinking that someone as you say is a well established lady wants your photo.

Don't mind him old timer