Disabilities

[JohnRambo]

We are not perfect, we all have flaws and evidence of life lived so please don't feel that we are, we are all created equal irrespective of appearance

You know MistressMonique I’ve thought about if I should reply to this really nice comment or not a million times but kept saying I wouldn’t however I just feel I have to.

As much as I love your answer and as much as it might be correct in an ideal world this would be correct, however sadly we don’t live in an ideal world do we and believe me I have the life experience and stories I could tell you sometime to prove it including some very nasty and rude comments and refusals said to me over the years whenever I've tried to make appointments with escorts? Not all but it has happened. One I'll never forget was, "no I don't see people like you."

[Lighthearted2022]

You know MistressMonique I’ve thought about if I should reply to this really nice comment or not a million times but kept saying I wouldn’t however I just feel I have to.

As much as I love your answer and as much as it might be correct in an ideal world this would be correct, however sadly we don’t live in an ideal world do we and believe me I have the life experience and stories I could tell you sometime to prove it including some very nasty and rude comments and refusals said to me over the years whenever I've tried to make appointments with escorts? Not all but it has happened. One I'll never forget was, "no I don't see people like you."

Hi John, I don’t know your situation and I can’t say I’ve suffered too much from what you describe over the years, but what I decided to take from Mistresses words was that while no-one is perfect, there is someone out there for us all and its then down to finding them.

If you met me in the street I’d be your typical middle-aged irish man – pale, hair thinning and a hint of a belly (biscuits, not drink!). You would not know I have any issues. However I have been refused by a very popular escort on this site because of it, and also in my dating life was asked to ‘do it from behind as I don’t want to look at it’. All you can do in these situations is turn around and walk out with your dignity intact knowing its not you that has an issue, its them and their view of the world.

As I mentioned above, I’ve been very lucky with who I’ve met, and one of the girls in particular would be my idea of the perfect woman. In my first meeting when I came out of the shower the towel was taken from me and I was made step back, standing there naked while she looked me up and down. It should have felt awkward, but strangely it wasn’t, and then she stepped in and gave me the strongest hug and a deep kiss – I fell a little in love with her there and then because she acknowledged my issue and showed it didn’t matter.

All I can say is to keep looking for girls like that who see who you are and don’t care – they are out there. My idea of the perfect woman may not be yours, there are beautiful women on this site that I don’t find in the least bit sexy, your ideal date could be my idea of hell, we’re all different.

Mistress said we are not perfect, but I believe that we all have somebody out there perfect for us – its just can we find them. Its hard to do, I know, but I hope you are able to put the nasty comments to one side and keep going forward, for what else can we do?

Good luck.

[JohnRambo]

Hi John, I don’t know your situation and I can’t say I’ve suffered too much from what you describe over the years, but what I decided to take from Mistresses words was that while no-one is perfect, there is someone out there for us all and its then down to finding them.

If you met me in the street I’d be your typical middle-aged irish man – pale, hair thinning and a hint of a belly (biscuits, not drink!). You would not know I have any issues. However I have been refused by a very popular escort on this site because of it, and also in my dating life was asked to ‘do it from behind as I don’t want to look at it’. All you can do in these situations is turn around and walk out with your dignity intact knowing its not you that has an issue, its them and their view of the world.

As I mentioned above, I’ve been very lucky with who I’ve met, and one of the girls in particular would be my idea of the perfect woman. In my first meeting when I came out of the shower the towel was taken from me and I was made step back, standing there naked while she looked me up and down. It should have felt awkward, but strangely it wasn’t, and then she stepped in and gave me the strongest hug and a deep kiss – I fell a little in love with her there and then because she acknowledged my issue and showed it didn’t matter.

All I can say is to keep looking for girls like that who see who you are and don’t care – they are out there. My idea of the perfect woman may not be yours, there are beautiful women on this site that I don’t find in the least bit sexy, your ideal date could be my idea of hell, we’re all different.

Mistress said we are not perfect, but I believe that we all have somebody out there perfect for us – its just can we find them. Its hard to do, I know, but I hope you are able to put the nasty comments to one side and keep going forward, for what else can we do?

Good luck.

Mate I think you misunderstood what I was trying to say, what I was trying to say was what MistressMonique said was really nice and I did appreciate what she said but what I was saying her comments were only really applicable in an ideal world but sadly we don’t live in an ideal world do we?

Don’t get me wrong I’ve been seeing escorts on and off now for over 20 years, never have I been put off and although 90% of my experiences have been positive there has been those 10% that haven’t. Its never put me off and it never will, I was just pointing out negative comments like I said I’ve encountered has and do still exist when you explain you have a disability.

My comments weren’t meant to be completely directed at punting either, I was just trying to say in general when you say you are disabled you can face really nasty and hurtful comments, but that’s just life and you have to accept it and just get on with things because like I said we don’t live in an ideal world where everyone is equal and thought of as the same.

My apologies if I didn’t make my point clear enough.

[Lighthearted2022]

Mate I think you misunderstood what I was trying to say, what I was trying to say was what MistressMonique said was really nice and I did appreciate what she said but what I was saying her comments were only really applicable in an ideal world but sadly we don’t live in an ideal world do we?

Don’t get me wrong I’ve been seeing escorts on and off now for over 20 years, never have I been put off and although 90% of my experiences have been positive there has been those 10% that haven’t. Its never put me off and it never will, I was just pointing out negative comments like I said I’ve encountered has and do still exist when you explain you have a disability.

My comments weren’t meant to be completely directed at punting either, I was just trying to say in general when you say you are disabled you can face really nasty and hurtful comments, but that’s just life and you have to accept it and just get on with things because like I said we don’t live in an ideal world where everyone is equal and thought of as the same.

My apologies if I didn’t make my point clear enough.

Hey John, I did get the wrong end the stick - but I'm happy that I was wrong & you're not letting it stop you from doing anything.

I would say Mistress' point still stands though - no-one is perfect, everyone is created equal and has flaws - its just that while ours may be physical, the flaws of those who would say such nasty comments are much worse as they show a flawed character.

Keep on trucking'!