Shaking my head sometimes...

[TonyStark]

Unfortunately that's an occupational hazard, guys prob just look at the pics and that's them on the phone. I'm surprised you even tolerate these people. I'd say you, being the nice pleasant girl you are, would have more than enough regulars to counter these idiots.

[DeeGeezer]

Out of curiosity, what percentage would the ladies say would no-show?

I have never no-showed. If for some reason I couldn't attend I would offer to pay anyway. I just think it is out of order. Especially with the amount of effort that goes into it. Shower, make up, getting dressed, potentially turning down other clients.

[Irelandbeautyyy]

Lol, i think one day i will sit there in circle as well

No, iam master in deep breathing and counting until ten

[dee dee]

There has most definitely been a change in clientele and attitude over the past few years. 25 years ago and further back these services were availed of by mostly middle aged men 40’s upwards who were married and couldn’t get sex and who were desperate in many ways to see a nice lady.
With the dawn of new money, prosperity and the internet, the younger generation have access to cash and sex at a moments notice. The ‘quick fix’ is what’s expected so respect goes out the door.

We are going to have to move with the times and the ‘Deposit’ system is now a requirement when visiting escorts and Dommes in the USA plus a client check like linkedin .
They have a system there called the 411 referral. The UK is going that way too. I mostly do out calls with no issues ; but to often weed out time wasters which only happened twice ,( both with guys in their 20’s) I too request an upfront online deposit prior to travel having not met you before and have had no issue getting it. Especially for outcalls just outside Dublin .

Only once when I asked for a deposit did an ignorant country man (after having sent me a disgusting rape fantasy in a car) asked me to visit him in his hotel in Dublin , refused to tell me his full name (I need it as reception now ask the guests full name) had the neck to suggest I was running a scam! This is the 21st century. Security has tightened up in all walks of like.,Banking , internet, etc This business is a business and needs to be treated like any other. No time for time wasters.

[Irelandbeautyyy]

Deposit sounds like good thing for new people but i think that..

- Most of men would not be happy with it.
- How Jess said i also have not capacity for care about deposit. I already have a lot of care about all tour.
- I was talking about deposit with other girl who does it but there are a lot of men who dont care about loss of several tens of euros.

And here we are again, its all about good manners, behaviour and also about self awarness that its business like any other.

I cant believe that somebody will make appoitment somewhere else ( barber, doctor, ...) and will not come at all or at least do not apologize for not coming.

[DunlopFuzzy]

Deposit sounds like good thing for new people but i think that..

- Most of men would not be happy with it.
- How Jess said i also have not capacity for care about deposit. I already have a lot of care about all tour.
- I was talking about deposit with other girl who does it but there are a lot of men who dont care about loss of several tens of euros.

And here we are again, its all about good manners, behaviour and also about self awarness that its business like any other.

I cant believe that somebody will make appoitment somewhere else ( barber, doctor, ...) and will not come at all or at least do not apologize for not coming.

If you are getting a lot of timewasters you could always trial taking deposits for new people.
If not successful then just go back to the old system.

[jessicabp]

Deposit sounds like good thing for new people but i think that..

- Most of men would not be happy with it.
- How Jess said i also have not capacity for care about deposit. I already have a lot of care about all tour.
- I was talking about deposit with other girl who does it but there are a lot of men who dont care about loss of several tens of euros.

And here we are again, its all about good manners, behaviour and also about self awarness that its business like any other.

I cant believe that somebody will make appoitment somewhere else ( barber, doctor, ...) and will not come at all or at least do not apologize for not coming.

*** lot of time wasters in the hospitality also, this is not only our problems

[Irelandbeautyyy]

If you are getting a lot of timewasters you could always trial taking deposits for new people.
If not successful then just go back to the old system.

Well, i have most of my clients regulars but i still accept new people. Its not about me and my business. This thread is for thinking as a lot of men do that. And i think if girls talk more about it, then some of people realise it and change their manners.

[Joaquim]

The problem seems to trying to get men to change their attitude, behaviour patterns and mindset more than anything. Paying a deposit to me is a case of treating the symptoms rather than the disease. I wouldn't have a problem paying a deposit to secure a booking with a lady I know and trust but would be wary of paying a deposit for a first time booking. Unfortunately I think some men are just beyond changing as regards to no shows and disrespecting service providers.

[jessicabp]

I think the communication changed in our virtual time, people lost the quality of the communication.

It’s not just the time wasting. I have lot of one way conversation.

I had 2 Misscalls from somebody called without ID caller last evening ( I don’t take booking for no ID caller ) , at the 3rd calls I answered the phone and I asked a text ( to see the phone number ) , of course he sent nothing and called again, I answered and I asked why you didn’t sent a text why do you call me again like this “ because I want to visit you right now, tell me your address “ I was still kindly and I asked a text message again. Bla - bla - bla , talk about the nothing , of course no text to check his number and called again… 5th times I said I am sorry I don’t have any patience and when I don’t have patience I cannot make good service and I don’t want to make a bad one so I closed. & I really closed.

After him ( I turn silence my working phone) somebody sent a text about he is coming today morning for 10. ( I didn’t read my texts until the morning and I didn’t reply ) he arrived on the morning in the city centre and he called me about he is here in 10 min. “ Great”. It’s a typical one way communication, I never answered, I never confirmed and I never sent my address.