"I respect all people equally, gender, sex, race, creed or colour we are all equal.
I've used the same dentist and doctor for decades and respect them as much as the escorts I used over the years. All deserve and indeed recieved my respect, courtesy and manners. It's how my good mother raised me."
The above doesn't compute with your view Tony.
Enjoy your life and Il enjoy mine.
IDF2 (14-10-21)
There’s only one thing that doesn’t sit right to me. I use. You use a tissue, a hairpin, a condom etc, hence you use an inanimate object.
You don’t use people. You avail of services. Regardless the profession you avail of a service.
Your phrasing would’ve sounded so much more on point if you would’ve said I visit the same dentist, doctors and visited escorts.
But maybe it’s just me it would’ve made the whole speech of ‘I am a perfect gentleman’ actually sound credible
Last edited by CurvyNina; 14-10-21 at 21:47.
[B][I]Life is too short for bad coffee and bad sex.
gonzo76 (14-10-21), Stephanie (15-10-21), TheSavannah (15-10-21), Tony344 (15-10-21)
In a rural area, the backup plan often is to stay home, or go to the pub.
Sometimes a lady might stray in my direction that I really want to meet, but I might procrastinate for a day or two due to other commitments. Then she is gone without notice. There might be other ladies in the area but none that I'm in any hurry to see.
I can be quite fussy, some of the regular ladies I'm my area, I wouldn't visit (again) if they were giving it away.
IDF2 (14-10-21)
I'm not a perfect gentleman but I seem to have made the fatal flaw of texting how I speak..my manager today ,a lady, asked me which Doctor do I use..so I don't know. I have heard the ladies at work talking about the beauticians they use not that they visit.
A visit to me implies visiting a friend, use simply implies a professional service.
Another lady colleague of mine recommended a valet she uses to me last week. Nobody got offended Nina.
Probably in normal settings this is permitted(I never say I use this doctor. I always say I go to this doctor, beautician)
In my private life I say I use to a cream, a shampoo, a mascara.
When I go to a doctor or any professional for that matter if I am asked for recommendation I say this is the professional I go to.
It’s not a matter of being offended, after so many years in this job I’ve learned to develop a thick skin, but when you say I use an escort,it doesn’t sit right to me. I have my standards. Just like I don’t see a client who visits me like a potential cash machine, I prefer to be referred to and talked to like a human being. I am not a Kleenex, just like you aren’t a wallet.
[B][I]Life is too short for bad coffee and bad sex.
Stephanie (15-10-21)
Totally agree with your sentiment and I don't think arguing the semantics is a positive thing to do.
I was surprised that so many will jump on to argue semantics and the grammar of a sentence. It says a lot and none of it to good. A bit sad to say the least 😂
Thank you for putting it so succinctly, it is okay "in normal" settings. I won't say I used escorts here again , il just say visited.
I think all the escorts have moved location again while all this talking was going on
I've a feeling we're not in Kansas anymore