tips for a newbie

[acuriousmind]

Hi everyone,
Total newbie here who would like to dip my toe in...but haven't really got a clue. Anyone got any hints and tips ? Things to look out for....what to do and what not to do etc.

[Rua]

As Con1 said , stick to tried and tested girls and they will look after you

[TonyB]

It's not your toe they expect you to dip

[lol brb]

It's easy as said.

Make the call and be clear with duration and time of appointment.
Listen carefully to any instructions and follow them exactly.

[MidlifeCrisis]

In this forum, there is a search bar (near the top right on most devices).

Put in something like "newbie advice" and you will find lots of helpful discussion. It is well worth spending some time, as it will greatly improve your experience.

The tips below are ones I gave a while back in answer to another newbie.

- When looking for an escort, choose location, then click the Filters button, and select "Verified photos" and "Allows reviews". Ads that you have filtered out are probably not worth the risk.

- Do plenty of research. Lots of people give mostly favourable reviews, but if you read a lot of them, you sometimes get a sense that a lady is genuinely delighting her clients. I strongly suggest that your early visits should be with ladies with lots of good reviews, even if that stretches your budget. They will put you at your ease and you are pretty much guaranteed a good time.

- Read the profile carefully. There are sometimes specific requests about how they wish to be contacted. The "Favourites" list gives an idea of what they may be happy to do. Don't assume that you can do everything there - I suggest asking before kissing them, or initiating anything imtimate. For early appointments, it may be best to just let them take the lead - if you let them run the appointment their own way, you will probably have a brilliant time.

- Definitely get a "punting phone" - a cheap PAYG one bought for cash, and vouchers bought for cash, so there is no link to you. That takes away a whole area of possible risk, and the only challenge is keeping the phone somewhere private.

- Phone first when asking for an appointment - many girls ignore texts and PMs if they do not know the client.

- Be polite, clear and to the point. A short compliment on their profile, followed by a request for an appointment, and the rough times that suit you. Calls like "are you available now", or trying to strike up a chat, will not go down well.

- If they offer you a time, listen carefully to any instructions they give you - not always easy, as many girls have accents. They often ask you to confirm by text 20 or 30 minutes before - if they don't ask, tell them that you will confirm by text, and do so. It increases your chance that they will hold the appointment and see you.

- The most important advice of all is about hygiene. Prepare yourself as if you were going on a first date with a girlfriend and hoping to get lucky. Clean carefully everywhere, including toothbrushing and mouthwash. Good escorts will offer you a shower when you arrive. You should say yes, even if you are straight out of the shower. If there is mouthwash in the bathroom, use it. They are much more likely to give you a great time.

- When you arrive and call them, a couple of minutes before the booked time, they sometimes tell you to call again from a particular place. This is sometimes so that they can get a look at you before giving you the full address. When you arrive at the door of the place, they normally stay behind the door while you come in - this is to stop them being seen from outside - feels a bit odd, but just walk in.

- The more polite and respectful you are throughout, the better the time you will have.

- Try to relax, smile and be friendly (can be easier said than done). I am naturally shy, but good escorts will sense any nervousness and are experts at helping you get going.

Good luck.

[Rooney2808]

Great advice from MidlifeCrisis. I'm a newbie too and I've got lots of good advice here on the forum, think there are a few threads aimed at newbies that should help you.
I try read all threads posted in forum, it's not overly busy, and even in threads not for newbies I almost always pick up some useful information.