Escourt Relationships

[Irelandbeautyyy]

And since you have an opinion on girls working and their relationships, what is you're opinion on clients that come and pay you for a service that have girlfriends/wives. Do you think they don't love them because I think they do.

That's just my opinion and I don't want anyone to take it wrong ...

Yes, I really think that a man who allows a woman to do this job does not love her. On the contrary, men are more physically based and do not connect sex with emotions that much. Again, this is just my subjective view of things.

[Forceuser]

It’s like asking do ye clients have romantic relationships or wife’s ?
Imagine that might be awkward .. lols


Lols all the way to the headroom

I actually do get asked that all the time.

doesn't bother me tho, i realize its less about actually wanting to know
and more about just making small talk until they are comfortable around me

[Forceuser]

I actually do get asked that all the time.

doesn't bother me tho, i realize its less about actually wanting to know
and more about just making small talk until they are comfortable around me

Or maybe it doesn't bother me cos i'm single and not being
reminded of my wife/girlfriend

[Brooksey86]

We are all human, so why not. A lot of girls have relationships but from my point of view it's impossible ... no loving man will allow his girlfriend to be touched by anyone else.
Btw cars and women do not lend

I agree with you 100%

I personally wouldn’t feel comfortable if my wife or girlfriend worked as an escort

But I also would not visit if I was married or in relationship so works both ways

[Irelandbeautyyy]

That's a very sad way of thinking, a man has to allow a woman to do something in a relationship! And not just accept her for who she is or what she does.
Also since you have this mentality about relationships. Would you lie to your future boyfriend about your escorting life? If you buy cars/apartments/houses etc will you lie to him about where your money comes from? Would you rather start a relationship built on lies in order to be loved? I wouldn't like to live that type of life but that's just my opinion.

I feel like I've "touched" a sensitive point and I don't want to continue ...

And yes, my future boyfriend/husband will know about my past. I'm not stupid, I know why I do this job and a smart man will understand. But only if it is the past!

How i said, now i dont want to continue.

[philipkntz]

To me this is like asking do Tesco staff shop in Lidl. Of course some do. Variety is the spice of life. I have actually enjoyed watching one particular girlfriend shagging other guys but I'd probably have felt different if she was mother of my children or if I got less attention as a result.

[JustAnotherGuy]

I feel like I've "touched" a sensitive point and I don't want to continue ...

And yes, my future boyfriend/husband will know about my past. I'm not stupid, I know why I do this job and a smart man will understand. But only if it is the past!

How i said, now i dont want to continue.

In my opinion Michelle makes the most sense and touches on reality, above the dreams and fairytales mostly everyone is answering.

There's guys that would be okay their partner to be working as an escort, but those are an actual minority. The majority wouldn't be okay with it. They might accept the past but not for it to continue and Michelle was actually cohesive with her idea and not opposing herself. It was obvious that she was saying that most likely for her, when she starts a serious relationship, she will be out of the escorting industry, and that she understands why her partner might not be accepting of her continuing with this job. Granted she might find a partner that accepts it, but also she acknowledges that normally most men aren't accepting of this.
This reflects a smart personality.

Escorting is a very physical job that includes extreme physical contact with other people, as well as it's a dangerous job. You would understand why a man wouldn't really accept his partner to continue working as an escort, barring jealousy and all, for reasons of constant health concerns (she might contract a virus such as covid or many others while doing her job and passing that to her house), also concerns of his partner's safety (like a dangerous encounter with a customer that might be mentally unstable) OR issues with the law (if not in Ireland might be in another country), as well as the extended branch of the family (like relatives) and I'm sure I can find a plethora of other reasons if I take more time thinking this through.

Instead of describing the situation with pink glasses, maybe take a seat and have a reality check please.

[Irelandbeautyyy]

In my opinion Michelle makes the most sense and touches on reality, above the dreams and fairytales mostly everyone is answering.

There's guys that would be okay their partner to be working as an escort, but those are an actual minority. The majority wouldn't be okay with it. They might accept the past but not for it to continue and Michelle was actually cohesive with her idea and not opposing herself. It was obvious that she was saying that most likely for her, when she starts a serious relationship, she will be out of the escorting industry, and that she understands why her partner might not be accepting of her continuing with this job. Granted she might find a partner that accepts it, but also she acknowledges that normally most men aren't accepting of this.
This reflects a smart personality.

Escorting is a very physical job that includes extreme physical contact with other people, as well as it's a dangerous job. You would understand why a man wouldn't really accept his partner to continue working as an escort, barring jealousy and all, for reasons of constant health concerns (she might contract a virus such as covid or many others while doing her job and passing that to her house), also concerns of his partner's safety (like a dangerous encounter with a customer that might be mentally unstable) OR issues with the law (if not in Ireland might be in another country), as well as the extended branch of the family (like relatives) and I'm sure I can find a plethora of other reasons if I take more time thinking this through.

Instead of describing the situation with pink glasses, maybe take a seat and have a reality check please.

Thank you! Iam so happy you got my point.

[JustAnotherGuy]

Not at all but to say someone can't be loved because of what they do is stupid. You're basically ashamed of what you do for a living to think you can't be loved. I feel for you hun

That's absolutely not what she said. And in my opinion there would be a long queue of men that would want to date her despite the job, all she meant is that she thinks that the job and the relationship wouldn't go along and that's a fair point.

She also said that she would be telling her future partner about her past, which would show she's okay with her past and not trying to hide behind it.

I think she indeed touched a sensitive point for that reaction.

[IDF2]

When you love someone you accept them as who they are & what they do.