Escourt Relationships

[Joelegs]

I have been been reading the discussion on the thread and I can some good points.

Firstly, I loved my wife, when we got married I thought I had met my soul mate. I was completely faithful for 20 years of marriage. Despite all the beautiful woman that I have met on this site, I can still say that the best sex I ever had was with my wife. Making love is different to having sex

I was very badly injured at work and I very nearly died, this changed everything. My wife refused to sleep with me, even give me a hug or even a civil word and any affection at all. Her standard of living dropped after I was hurt. I regularly worked 65 hours a week.

Eventually I got fed up and started seeing Escorts because everyone craves human contact, even if you have to pay for it.

I have met some lovely ladies on EI from all over the world. I have had amazing sex. I try to treat everyone as a person first. In my previous profession I know what it is like to be spat on, physically injured and verbally abused and I understand what it was like to have a dangerous job and be far from home.

Sometimes, there is a connection with a lady. This is not falling in love, or the thinking that there could be ever any kind of romance. It's when the two people in a room understand that they have a very good professional relationship and treat each other well. Both parties treat each other with respect and as an other human beings. They build a good relationship, get on well the more times they see each other and wish each other the best. It's hard to describe because there is sex involved in this relationship, but it's a bit like the relationship that you might have with your barber or your car mechanic. With that said, I have never had sex with my barber or mechanic and never intended to.

One of the nicest things a beautiful escort that I used to visit regularly did for me once was do up my shirt buttons for me. The fingers on my left hand were hurt when I was injuried. This was one of these moments that I am taking about. She was not rushing out the door and everything was so relaxed and there was something in this action that made me feel like a man again.

With thst said, I can understand why Michelle said what she did. I would not want my girlfriend working as an escort. Not because I think that there is any shame involved in working as an escort, but because I would be afraid that some punter would hurt her, or verbally abuse them. I would want to protect them, even if they didn't want protected. I have never met Michelle, I missed the last 2 times she was in town. I have texted and talked to her on the phone and she is a lovely, professional and gentle woman.

With that said I know of one case were an escort and her client ended up in a relationship together. With all that I have gone through in my own relationship and what I have seen, I have to say that I think very differently about relationships now. Strange things happen in life. People look for different things in people and if two people fill the needs of each other it's up to them to find out what works for them. Someone once said something to me: you spend an very long time dead and so I'm trying to enjoy life while I have some.

If my wife would show me some of the attributes I discussed above I would never see another escort again.

[IrishCasey]

Do you think a woman who is currently an escort could at the same time be a wife and family woman? I don't think that would fly in most homes..

If it was in the past that's a different story..

I think you have serious issues with how life works there isn’t a person single/married or whatever has to answer to the likes of you.

[rockonallnite]

You dont surprised me as you are blood from south, ahaha.
But to be honest if I would be your lovely girl, iam so jealous how you know how to kiss other (i have good memory) xxx

Thanks babe, funnily enough, and this IS the truth, my first kiss was with an escort!! she taught me well!!
did I take your breath away..??hahaha

[SexyEliza]

Do you think a woman who is currently an escort could at the same time be a wife and family woman? I don't think that would fly in most homes..

If it was in the past that's a different story..

Of course... ever better. Cause we know the under needs of a man and we can provide more then a regular women. By the way we are not toys... we are complex women . We cook, we do all the other things a women do ...
There are so many things a wiffey will refuse to do with his hubby not because she won't love it just because she can be judged about that.
So let me know why an escort can't be a family women ?!

[SexyEliza]

Most escort are not single.

A little aerobic with you not means you become part of my life.

Endless bullshit it this thread. Really.

I can add here more....
Singles escorts are singles by choice not because can't love or become a family women.
In fact this can be translated as a responsibility about people around us...

[SexyEliza]

I think this gone so far...

[rockonallnite]

So all escorts in relationships are hiding
Their pain .
Maybe accept that most are happy .
You cannot give clear judgement on something you’ve
Never experienced


I’d never judge unless I walk in their
Sexy high heels

Maybe some day you will , when you least expect it

And the only pain will be those high heels

To all the people in the forum:

"It is never too late to give up our prejudices"

[Gthomas]

I have been been reading the discussion on the thread and I can some good points.

Firstly, I loved my wife, when we got married I thought I had met my soul mate. I was completely faithful for 20 years of marriage. Despite all the beautiful woman that I have met on this site, I can still say that the best sex I ever had was with my wife. Making love is different to having sex

I was very badly injured at work and I very nearly died, this changed everything. My wife refused to sleep with me, even give me a hug or even a civil word and any affection at all. Her standard of living dropped after I was hurt. I regularly worked 65 hours a week.

Eventually I got fed up and started seeing Escorts because everyone craves human contact, even if you have to pay for it.

I have met some lovely ladies on EI from all over the world. I have had amazing sex. I try to treat everyone as a person first. In my previous profession I know what it is like to be spat on, physically injured and verbally abused and I understand what it was like to have a dangerous job and be far from home.

Sometimes, there is a connection with a lady. This is not falling in love, or the thinking that there could be ever any kind of romance. It's when the two people in a room understand that they have a very good professional relationship and treat each other well. Both parties treat each other with respect and as an other human beings. They build a good relationship, get on well the more times they see each other and wish each other the best. It's hard to describe because there is sex involved in this relationship, but it's a bit like the relationship that you might have with your barber or your car mechanic. With that said, I have never had sex with my barber or mechanic and never intended to.

One of the nicest things a beautiful escort that I used to visit regularly did for me once was do up my shirt buttons for me. The fingers on my left hand were hurt when I was injuried. This was one of these moments that I am taking about. She was not rushing out the door and everything was so relaxed and there was something in this action that made me feel like a man again.

With thst said, I can understand why Michelle said what she did. I would not want my girlfriend working as an escort. Not because I think that there is any shame involved in working as an escort, but because I would be afraid that some punter would hurt her, or verbally abuse them. I would want to protect them, even if they didn't want protected. I have never met Michelle, I missed the last 2 times she was in town. I have texted and talked to her on the phone and she is a lovely, professional and gentle woman.

With that said I know of one case were an escort and her client ended up in a relationship together. With all that I have gone through in my own relationship and what I have seen, I have to say that I think very differently about relationships now. Strange things happen in life. People look for different things in people and if two people fill the needs of each other it's up to them to find out what works for them. Someone once said something to me: you spend an very long time dead and so I'm trying to enjoy life while I have some.

If my wife would show me some of the attributes I discussed above I would never see another escort again.

Thanks for... Wow. 'Treat everyone as a person first'.

[rockonallnite]

“ Stability leads to instability,
The more stable things become and the longer things are stable,
The more unstable they are when the crisis hits “

H minksy

I wonder is this about “marriage relationships “?

Like is it possible to have a successful marriage relationship and still see escorts ?
I believe it is
But the general opinion across this thread ,
That it’s not possible for escorts to have a loving relationship outside their work ?
Those who vilify against us are pot stirs and took pride in exposing us to the nastiest
Ugliest, vile human behavior,
Single guys like brooksey and fullirish had valid interesting view points not pints ❤️
Not too much coming from the married hunnies out there ?

The above quote reminded me of a amazing recent divorcee client who explained
Leaving a family , a life and everything you know is harder than a 7 year jail sentence
In mount joy

Damn I really felt that .

So when he finally made that brutal painful desicion
Crisis hit

That's a very good quote, when the crisis hit everything falls like a castle made of cards...
Who wants to start from Zero again?, and some people can not face that prospect they need there jobs, family, friends, security, etc

I have a good relationship and yes I still see escorts , because I want something different...been on a diet doesnt mean you can look at the menu...
If the man doesn't find what he is looking for at home, he will look somewhere else...

[MrCreen]

I think you have serious issues with how life works there isn’t a person single/married or whatever has to answer to the likes of you.

Never said they did. So long as your comfortable in your heart with how you carry on your golden right.