You got some great answers here Michelle. I would relate to some of the content below, probably FullIrish mostly for "main reasons". I find the best meetings (which lead to a return) first and foremost are, when the lady is happy to see me, comfortable in my presence, just the feeling of two people meeting in normal circumstances. If this happens usually all the other reasons follow ... like....
the instant smile and reaction when you set eyes, and/or grabbed by the hand and brought to the bedroom.
Sometimes instant desire and chemistry, she might jump you at the door.
Sometimes she might pinch or slap on the bum when going to the shower, turn around and a cheeky smile from her.
when she joins in the shower and washes me, sometimes she squeeze my buttocks!
Sometimes it can be physical touch during intercourse that demonstrates the ladies interest or sincere kissing
Pulling her hands up the t-shirt, ordering to get the clothes off!
walk in the door and instant pulling the belt off and zip going down.
when she is comfortable having a full-on pillow fight and/or when she is waiting behind the door next time with a pillow when I call over and gives me an almighty wallop, then runs off up the stairs
if in a hotel, jumping up and down on the bed
there is one lady I go to see most and it is just purely because probably she is the most beautiful person I ever met both inside and out, love her voice and how she speaks with me. haven't met you but I am betting that you would fall into this same category
Your a decent sod FullIrish