First date

[TheSavannah]

Hello everybody!

I have a question!

Do men have to pay on the first date, do they always have to pay, do they have to pay in halves, is it a cultural thing, how do you feel about always having the responsibility to pay?

Open debate!

[AmbiValent]

It's 2021 not 1821. Equality and all that jazz. The person that does the inviting should pay.

However it's probably better to at least offer to pay 50/50 if you have no intention of returning for a second date.

[EscortInspector]

I usually pay on first dates, second dates, third, fourth... That's not to say I always pay, but I usually do.

The person that does the inviting should pay.

I'm the one usually invited, I have really bad self esteem issues and can't for the life of me understand why anyone would want to go anywhere with me

[Irelandbeautyyy]

In my eyes, a man should clearly pay on a first date. Then one of them can pay next time and second one another time etc...

But I'm sure some men don't let a woman pay at all because they're happy to take care of her. It is of course very individual because everyone has a different view. But everyone is right.

[JustAnotherGuy]

I pay on the first few days, I believe the man should always pay on first date, the rest is up to both

[jessicabp]

Man must pay on the first date, if it’s a real date,
I pay always 50% when I meet with friends.

[Brooksey86]

I think man pays first date. 2nd date who asks pays but I’d still feel I’d have to and want to pay

[BarryD]

Hello everybody!

I have a question!

Do men have to pay on the first date, do they always have to pay, do they have to pay in halves, is it a cultural thing, how do you feel about always having the responsibility to pay?

Open debate!

My own opinion on this is, Yes, a man should ALWAYS insist on paying on the first date. For me it is basic etiquette. Paying for a meal or drinks, whatever shouldn't be breaking a mans bank balance if he has anything about him.

I think the pandemic has changed people’s views on dateing etc .
A friend of mine lost one stone and saved 15k from not paying for random dates
In the Irish pubs .
Instead he now average cost euro weekly into bitcoin and is up 70k since the first lockdown.
He didn’t realise how much he spent in his local pubs until they closed last March .

He still is randomly dating on tinder but goes to the park for coffee or picnics instead .
You can get very creative and have an epic picnic , especially if its a sunny day in Dublin.
I think the fresh air makes you extra horny haha .
Anyone fancy a picnic ?


I’ve had the best picnics last summer in the first lockdown in st Stephens green park
Especially with the girls , sneaking in our ice bucket and processco glasses .

I did try a virtual zoom going to the “pub” date .
My date was sexy AF , but he was drinking whiskey
And fell asleep, snoring! That did not make me horny .

I never tried virtual after that

I always offer to pay on a first date halves but men insist especially
On first date ( pre pandemic times )

Dates: would have been already on your friends new wave length, it is the simple things. A walk on the beach with the dogs, a coffee, picnic, ball or frizby in the park or just chill, dinner, glass of wine and movie at home with a few treats. Not breaking the bank there, a couple of YO-YO! Flash restaurant on occasion

Picnic? I'm IN!

In my eyes, a man should clearly pay on a first date. Then one of them can pay next time and second one another time etc...

But I'm sure some men don't let a woman pay at all because they're happy to take care of her. It is of course very individual because everyone has a different view. But everyone is right.

Classy response from a classy lady with a great eye for a beautiful escort!

[Noregrets]

Personally I would always insist on paying,

[Forceuser]

i'm a bit old fashioned,so i expect to pay.

i do try to get her to fill up on bread rolls tho