A cup of tea with... SteveB!
A cup of tea with... SteveB!
Hi everyone!
This community is not only formed by Escorts, in fact, most of the users are their clients.
They are a fundamental part of the community and I think we could get to know each other a bit better, I think it's interesting to know what they think about some topics... so let's start the interview with
SteveB!
Savannah: What do you find in an experience with an escort that you don't find with a girl who is not an escort?
SteveB: With an escort you get convenience and discretion.
It is easy to set up a meeting (finding the location sometimes be difficult but that is another topic!) and the girl is not going to carry tales and tell stories to your friends and workmates.
As for “services” no one is going to equal a compatible long-term partner. But such a person is hard to find.
Most escorts offer a very good service. They tend to be well-travelled interesting people. Visiting escorts also gives you the chance to meet a large number of people from different places that you would not normally meet.
Savannah: Why do you think an escort is judged more than a porn actress? Except for the camera recording it, what is the difference?
SteveB: I don’t know. I am not even sure the premise in the question is correct. Porn stars are often regarded with the same hostility from the same narrow-minded group.
If there is more criticism of escorts it may be because they are seen as out and about in the community while porn stars are regarded as perhaps as slightly unreal because they are seen on a screen.
But, don’t know.
Savannah: How do you plan your meeting with an escort? Do you improvise? Do you organize it days in advance? How do you prepare for the meeting?
SteveB: My initial reaction to that question is that I usually don’t plan. Sometimes I have seen escorts and I have planned exactly what I wanted to do I do but I tend to “go with the flow”
I should, I know, plan. The escort is “the professional” but I know she cannot read minds and without clues you make her job more difficult. These questions, Savannah, perhaps will act as a prompt for me to reflect more on my behaviour!
When I think more about the question, I recall that where I do plan is the journey. Perhaps this is a sign (bad sign
Savannah: Do you think you should give pleasure to them as well or do you think it is not necessary?
SteveB: Question reminds me of a Rik Mayall sketch.
My opinion is that people (including myself
The escort’s needs and feelings, I feel, are very important. Again I tend to just go with the flow.
I can recall escorts who definitely did not want “pleasure” and those who definitely did.
And, on one particular, strange-but-memorable occasion, of one girl who definitely did and was not taking no for an answer!
I remember an ex-girl-friend who had the most intense feelings from having her neck and shoulders massaged (new meaning to “necking”) but usually “pleasure” involves fiddling with someone’s private bits
Sometimes, I am just realistic and I think if I just don’t annoy her too much or gross her out I am doing OK!
Savannah: If you could share with us any learning that could be useful to us, what would it be?
SteveB: I hesitate to give learning or to hand-out advice. I could do with some advice and learning myself.
The EI website, I could complain about it, but generally I think it is a good website. It really has no serious rivals. You can’t please everyone but it has got it mostly right.
As for advice for clients, a lot of them don’t read the forums anyhow. I know I didn’t for a long time. Most clients who do read these boards probably don’t need advice.
When I rang my first escort, I thought it was a good idea to ask her a lot of questions. It isn’t a good idea because you are tying up her phone. I know now that any question that isn’t something like, “Can I see you.......” or a question about where to go to, is going to be regarded as a stupid question. Sometimes after I have phoned someone I wonder if I was too brief or seemed abrupt but I think not tying up phone for long is best.
I have found that I can’t drive and follow directions at the same time. Need good place to park and get directions and know where you are going. Sometimes directions make sense if you just relax and take time to think. Drive around with vague, poorly understood directions hoping to find the place will just get you lost, annoyed, and likely to have an accident.
One piece of advice I know I should follow but don’t, is to talk and communicate. One escort in an interview had commented that uncommunicative clients can be hard work. I feel I have often been that client and have been hard work. Escorts will put a lot of effort into what they do; they make it seem effortless but to be that effortless and laid back requires effort!
And the best advice if you have not seen an escort before? Just do it.
Thank you SteveB for your time and kindness!! It's a pleasure that you accepted the interview!
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