Originally Posted by
Belfastlad28
I'm married and was thinking of booking an escort but wonder if guilt would get to me
Crazy suggestion; if the issue is in fact physical intimacy and just that, have you considered talking to your wife?
Sometimes on relationships people get so caught up in playing their "role" they forget they came together because of their love. And this love, for such a commitment is usually multifaceted. Look at each and every one of these facets.
First by yourself and once you've a better understanding of those present your needs to her. Be willing and eager to hear her side.
Who knows? It might be something you two could do together? It might be opening up the relationship through things like swinging could be it. It maybe you just need extra support in other areas to re-expand your love and flirt zone.
I am aware for some, the melding that happens once married is the biggest hurdle. The thing becomes to have something, anything, you can keep to just yourself. In the case, re escorting or meeting one; go for it. Try it and see.
Does it fufill that sense of coming back to yourself? Or is it just another way to avoid dealing with non-intimacy related issues? Only you can say.
Sit with it and see. But I'm your decision be clear, be strong and be precise.
Have a beautiful day hon.
Last edited by Cassandra; 06-11-20 at 06:03.
Reason: Typos
What if "It's Raining Men" and 'Let the bodies hit the floor' are both about the same event but from different perspectives 🤔