Am I doing something wrong?

[bmw528]

I would say change things up a bit ! I used to look like justin bieber about 15 years ago and always pulled on nights out , not like that anymore to be fair, those days are long gone. Escorts will treat you the same as an overweight man with a beard.

Also i'd say you are seeing cheap girls with little or no reviews

Ye mean maybe a bit like Santy?

[Gthomas]

Hi lads,

I've been using Escort Ireland since pubs and clubs closed and the dating scene started falling apart.

I'm 30, white, good shape, good looking, white smile, European and I'm not saying it to brag, it is just to mention I don't see how my appearance would be the problem.

Before this whole situation we're living now, I was going out on many dates and successfully was getting girls to my bed. So, I really don't think the problem is how I look.

However, I don't know if is only with me, or if is happening to many of you, but I'm having many escorts who aren't really interested to do what they were paid for and treating me really badly as a client.

3 out of 9 escorts I've been out with, basically just wanted my money, lying down there, make me cum as fast as possible and get out of their face. Even though, I asked "girlfriend experience" to all of them.

There was no talk, no touch, nothing, just straight down to the business, and then telling me to dress up and get out! Also, very bad mood since opening the door until I leave.

What is going on? I'm not expecting to have an escort as the love of my life, but at least I was expecting to be respected as I always respected all of them.

When I read reviews like "we had a laugh", "we talked and had a deep connection" and bla bla bla, I really keep thinking if those reviews are real or if the problem is with me or specifically with those 3 girls.

What about you guys? How are your experience being so far?

You probably meet cheap girls, or inexperienced, maybe you not doing any homework... There could be lot reasons...
Try girls with lot positive reviews, read not 1, not 2 review... Read positive reviews and try to find bad one. Maybe that bad review is a lie, but it gives lot info about girl... What to expect. Check date when bad review came.
There's few Escort girls I was... Can recommend them almost all. Mishelle (4 time EOTM, she'll be EOTM of October), Rebecca, Amy Alison, Anna... There's one secret girl, I've never seen her (that girl don't want someone to avertize her),but she's on my top list.
Try these girls...
Good luck!

[fernandoguel]

How long were the appointments? 1hour or more is best for gfe type .

Also how much did you pay? Cheaper ones are not usually the best.

Did the escorts have lots of good reviews? Opted out ones can be dodgy.

Were they late at night? Escorts need sleep too.

Hi Roddy,

2 out of 9 was 1h and the rest 30 minutes.

I stopped asking for 1h after those 2 because I didn't see the value of it. But I believe it would worth it for a second meeting if you liked the girl.

2 out of 9 I paid €200 for 1h, 7 out 9 I paid €100 for 30 minutes.

About reviews it was mixed. A few had more reviews, others less and I made a huge mistake to go out with 1 opted out. The worst mistake ever! I learned the hard way to don't go with opted out. Between those 3 bad experiences, this opted out was one of them (the worst!).

It was always late afternoon between 5pm and 7pm.

[fernandoguel]

Hi lads,

Thank you very much for your suggestions!

I really appreciate it.

I think I learned a few things from your experience:

1. Stay longer than 1h.
2. Go for higher rates.
3. The more reviews the better.
4. Read all reviews.
5. Talk to the girl, about her favorites and try to have a feeling before you go there.

I'll definitely apply these recommendations from now on.

Thanks a lot for your time!

PS: after posting this thread, I went out with an advertiser I don't know if I can post her link here, if yes, I'll post it.
Ironically, she was the cheapest and THE BEST experience among 10 experiences from Escort Ireland.
She was exactly what I was looking for. It is so funny because it was in the same day I posted this thread here, all frustrated.
Maybe it was luck? Who knows...

[176x]

Hi lads,

I've been using Escort Ireland since pubs and clubs closed and the dating scene started falling apart.

I'm 30, white, good shape, good looking, white smile, European and I'm not saying it to brag, it is just to mention I don't see how my appearance would be the problem.

Before this whole situation we're living now, I was going out on many dates and successfully was getting girls to my bed. So, I really don't think the problem is how I look.

However, I don't know if is only with me, or if is happening to many of you, but I'm having many escorts who aren't really interested to do what they were paid for and treating me really badly as a client.

3 out of 9 escorts I've been out with, basically just wanted my money, lying down there, make me cum as fast as possible and get out of their face. Even though, I asked "girlfriend experience" to all of them.

There was no talk, no touch, nothing, just straight down to the business, and then telling me to dress up and get out! Also, very bad mood since opening the door until I leave.

What is going on? I'm not expecting to have an escort as the love of my life, but at least I was expecting to be respected as I always respected all of them.

When I read reviews like "we had a laugh", "we talked and had a deep connection" and bla bla bla, I really keep thinking if those reviews are real or if the problem is with me or specifically with those 3 girls.

What about you guys? How are your experience being so far?

Tbh most european guys have a reputation of being forceful and aggressive with their woman so maybe they just want you serviced and out asap.
On the other hand you could just be going for the 50 dollar wham bam escort where you get what you pay for

[bigmango]

Hi Roddy,

2 out of 9 was 1h and the rest 30 minutes.

I stopped asking for 1h after those 2 because I didn't see the value of it. But I believe it would worth it for a second meeting if you liked the girl.

2 out of 9 I paid €200 for 1h, 7 out 9 I paid €100 for 30 minutes.

About reviews it was mixed. A few had more reviews, others less and I made a huge mistake to go out with 1 opted out. The worst mistake ever! I learned the hard way to don't go with opted out. Between those 3 bad experiences, this opted out was one of them (the worst!).

It was always late afternoon between 5pm and 7pm.

So ignoring the one that opted out - you had a good experiences 75% of the time - not a bad average when choosing a new person each time.
I would not feel bad about that - Its all about learning from your mistakes.

First impressions are so important between you and her so it sets a good vibe if in the initial conversation you look to book for a 60/90 mins on a particular day & time and then if she is available to follow up with your specific questions on favourites/services provided etc.

[TonyB]

Also i'd say you are seeing cheap girls with little or no reviews

I think this is very wrong.
The best escort visits are with those escorts we find attractive and click with. Money has nothing to do with it

In fact from my experience I am more often disappointed by the more expensive escorts than those who charge less. Perhaps my expectation is higher and rarely attained
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[TonyB]

Tbh most european guys have a reputation of being forceful and aggressive with their woman so maybe they just want you serviced and out asap.


On the other hand you could just be going for the 50 dollar wham bam escort where you get what you pay for

The first comment is of course an example of racism, but that's a different topic.

I get wham bam and out the door even when I pay 100.
This said, what exactly am I supposed to do when I'm done? I just leave.

[Forceuser]

This said, what exactly am I supposed to do when I'm done?

Bit of a chat and a laugh.
I find getting to know them a little enhances the return visits

[Irelandbeautyyy]

I'm not a man, but when I look at the escort’s profile - based on the text, favorites, rates, reviews (especially from reviewers with a well-known name) and even from the photos i can see what probably i can expect from this escort . Many people just look at the photos and that's enough for them, in the end they will find out that only appearance is not enough ... and especially if you are looking for GFE service.