Bet I had you going for a bit Dooz.
Bet I had you going for a bit Dooz.
Hi,
I just read logged on for the first time in a while and just read the thread starters post. I have no idea what is going on but feel sad to hear that Alyssa was forced to drop to such levels. I personally know Alyssa and have regular contact with her and despite all that we have experienced I have never once witnessed her respond in such a way. I can only conclude that who ever was on her case must have done a very good job at hurting and intimidating her to bring her to this.
As I said early, I dont know whats going on but I personally know how bullying feels. I experienced it a few years ago and its very very unpleasant. If people actually knew the pain it causes I am sure they would think twice about doing so.
I think the best thing to do in these cases is to let things drop and dont answer back. I have told many collegues and clients alike to stop answering back....it only adds fuel to the fire.
I am still very shocked to see a friend of mine experiencing this but somehow not suprised as someone is always pinpointed whether for the wrong or right reasons.
I really hope this will end in a good note and that everyone involved can maybe see that its all gone a little to far. Even the strongest person gets hurt with accussations and if something is personal maybe it should be kept personal or otherwise stated on a review.
Hope you all have a great week.
xxxxxxx