Bullying

[Quarterpoundher]

It's time for a zero policy on bullying. Its up to the mods though. Well what about it guys? Time to stand up and be counted.

Agree completely. It is also for members to help by using the report a post button attached to every post with the symbol "!" when ever they feel something is not in line with the rules here. That report pm is then up in front off all com mods and E-I staff and whoever see's it first can act if required or we can then have a discussion among ourselves as what is best to do. We are volunteers and have stuff to do just like yerselves but we do and will act on every valid reported post so ask the forums help also.

[Quarterpoundher]

Cyberbullying is not a real issue. Come on guys, we're not 14 year olds (well apart from Robin Rock), grow up.

If people here decided to verbally abuse me, I'd just probably leave... not be like: "waaa waaa Patricia they're cyberabusing me!!!!".

If you give someone enough respect to care what they think of you.... then that's YOUR perogative and it's too bad if they really don't like you. Noone's fault.

There is a direct link between genuine escorts being verbally attacked here and their phones stopping to ring. this is a fact. If you are abused it will not affect your earnings. We are doing our best for both sides here and we have a way to go to really tackle all these issues but I assure all genuine members we are working on it. We have only lately had more mods and it is by increased numbers that we can be able to deal more effectively with issues that genuine members want dealt with....

[Quarterpoundher]

My two cents follow.

Anyone who knows me at all now, knows that I really detest human nature when we turn on each other. Dont call me sensitive pls

What happened in the last week was Alyssa was bullied.

She was cyber bullied and the response here was too slow and too weak.

What's worse is that she lost the rag back and let herself down. Amore dignified silent appraoch and less coarse language would suit a lady like her better

They both came out bad, but Robin R is anonymous, Alyssa may be adversely affected and that's saddest of all..

I say to the EI. Stamp out bullying

She was more then dignified in her response and can voice her opinion as and when she sees fit...

[rincewind]

Thanks for the tip about reporting a post. Its nice to know we can do more than just leaving it up to the mods to spot these type of situations.

[Quarterpoundher]

Thanks for the tip about reporting a post. Its nice to know we can do more than just leaving it up to the mods to spot these type of situations.

You would be amazed at how many people did not even know that button is there Rincewind. It is very small and should be a lot more noticeable given its importance...

Again I ask for all genuine members who value this site and its intended purpose to consider reporting anything they spot that concerns them, be that something directed at them or something directed at others.... Valid reports will be looked into and genuine reports with good intentions are also welcome and offer thanks in advance for anyone taking the time to do so...

[Doozer]

Bet I had you going for a bit Dooz.

Ha ha funny guy Alec

[mommy hilton the 69th]

You would be amazed at how many people did not even know that button is there Rincewind. It is very small and should be a lot more noticeable given its importance...

Again I ask for all genuine members who value this site and its intended purpose to consider reporting anything they spot that concerns them, be that something directed at them or something directed at others.... Valid reports will be looked into and genuine reports with good intentions are also welcome and offer thanks in advance for anyone taking the time to do so...

What course of actions do the escorts you stalk by pm take to stop you offering them lifts...

[mommy hilton the 69th]

My two cents follow.

Anyone who knows me at all now, knows that I really detest human nature when we turn on each other. Dont call me sensitive pls

What happened in the last week was Alyssa was bullied.

She was cyber bullied and the response here was too slow and too weak.

What's worse is that she lost the rag back and let herself down. Amore dignified silent appraoch and less coarse language would suit a lady like her better

They both came out bad, but Robin R is anonymous, Alyssa may be adversely affected and that's saddest of all..

I say to the EI. Stamp out bullying

Seriously if your that sensitive about written words on a screen i can only imagine what you real life is like

[Westsidex]

Agree completely. It is also for members to help by using the report a post button attached to every post with the symbol "!" when ever they feel something is not in line with the rules here. That report pm is then up in front off all com mods and E-I staff and whoever see's it first can act if required or we can then have a discussion among ourselves as what is best to do. We are volunteers and have stuff to do just like yerselves but we do and will act on every valid reported post so ask the forums help also.

but i can see this being abused and tit for tat reports going up.He reported me so i will report him sort of thing.Also we will be back to the same old "i reported this and that was done,yet he reported that the this was done.

Open to abuse,
Westside.

[Westsidex]

is talking through pms.Ppl may as well post their comments to each other.Its a nuisance.Better if mods had a private chat area where they can speak directly on issues with each other and have those issues dealt with quicker and in a more satisfactory way.

Westside.