REVIEWS are a REFLECTION of the reviewer

[beautyaddict]

Hope you are all having a lovely Christmas day.

Being Christmas day, I'm home, stuffed and a tad bored so decided to have a read through the reviews. I honestly think that some reviewers have anger issues which are projected onto the lady. So much so that they are consciously aware that they will destroy someone's self confidence and not to mention credibility and income and still do it with a passion. There are subtle ways of saying you are not happy with certain things.

Reviews are a reflection of the reviewer - On the contrary to what many reviews believe, it is not just one sided. If when screening I happen to read an EI members reviews and see a big percentage of yellow star ratings, I will refuse an appointment. Why? Because the reviews shows the character of the reviewer and some guys for whatever reason are simply hard to please, no matter how much anyone tries.

I think you have a v good point , some treat their right to review in any of the following categories

I paid I am entitled to treat you as I wish and if you dont like it , this is what I do

I am angry/inadequate so fuck you

I have my problems and here is my outlet , this review

I paid you have no rights , no right to being human , the piece of meat genre

Some of our worst posters have a slew of v bad reviews that simply amplify their issues .

But some negative reviews are valid .

However the manner in which some damage girls at all levels without a shred of concern is indeed telling us of them .

We need to try to think what may be going on for the person in front of us. Money does not remove their right to humanity and respect.

[Kenton]

She is talking about a pattern of behaviour not just a couple of negative reviews. Do you really think we would purposely lose income just to take sides? That would be more than a little silly. TBH I am a little shocked that this would come as news to you. Of course, we are going to check a guys reviews, we are not stupid and know whilst they are trying to get a booking they are on their best behaviour. This all comes under our screening including how you guys act on the boards which I am sure you do a similar thing when selecting an escort.

Nah if I judged an escort by how she behaved on the boards there would be a few that I would 100% avoid but you can't really judge a person by how they go on these boards. So you only see clients who give their user name? I've made dozens of bookings and never once been asked for my name on the boards. Never been an issue.

[TheKinkyMasseuse]

Nah if I judged an escort by how she behaved on the boards there would be a few that I would 100% avoid but you can't really judge a person by how they go on these boards. So you only see clients who give their user name? I've made dozens of bookings and never once been asked for my name on the boards. Never been an issue.

Where did i say I only see guys who give me their user name???? but if you think for one minute that a lady is going to see a guy who she knows to be a nasty arse on this board then you are deluding yourself.
If women and clients alike do not use everything at their disposal to either screen or choose someone then they only have themselves to blame when things go wrong.

You must have missed the threads on screening but changes are heading this way and it will either be a case of giving references or your user name soon so guys who think they can treat other women badly either here or during bookings and by rights ladies who are false advertising will find themselves stuck x

[Kenton]

Where did i say I only see guys who give me their user name???? but if you think for one minute that a lady is going to see a guy who she knows to be a nasty arse on this board then you are deluding yourself.
If women and clients alike do not use everything at their disposal to either screen or choose someone then they only have themselves to blame when things go wrong.

You must have missed the threads on screening but changes are heading this way and it will either be a case of giving references or your user name soon so guys who think they can treat other women badly either here or during bookings and by rights ladies who are false advertising will find themselves stuck x

Well you said how they act on the boards so unless you're psychic you're not gonna know who's who without a username. What about guys who don't have profiles and who just come on for a look? Also what passes for mistreatment? Seen alot of guys get lifted out of it on here for simply having a difference of opinion with some of the girls, doesn't make them bad.

[MarkM2020]

Well you said how they act on the boards so unless you're psychic you're not gonna know who's who without a username. What about guys who don't have profiles and who just come on for a look? Also what passes for mistreatment? Seen alot of guys get lifted out of it on here for simply having a difference of opinion with some of the girls, doesn't make them bad.

There's other screening methods then just asking for a username. Very few clients actually use the forums so if someone only sees people who post here she probably wouldn't see many (she didn't say that btw.)

Asking for a username would just be 1 way of doing screening, you don't have a username then you'll be asked for something else...

[TheKinkyMasseuse]

There's other screening methods then just asking for a username. Very few clients actually use the forums so if someone only sees people who post here she probably wouldn't see many (she didn't say that btw.)

Asking for a username would just be 1 way of doing screening, you don't have a username then you'll be asked for something else...

Exactly what his guy said and considering I spend the majority of my time in England, if I only took guys with profiles here it would be a very quiet life. I am not going to try and explain any more to him it's very clear I was talking about guys who contact via here or give their user name for their screening method. He has also replied under my post on a different thread where I am clearing talking about another site I use where guys use their booking system as well as this one xx

Edit: By the way, I rarely see guys from forums most of my business comes through google and my website so i obviously use other screening methods x

[oldfool]

Might aswell say all negative reviews are bollox so. Par for the course on here that the client must be in the wrong if the review is negative. Just because they're angry doesn't mean they're clearly the reason for a bad appointment.

That is not what is being said. I have given a lot more positives than negatives, but will give negatives if warranted. In fact I am suspicious of someone who only has given positive. That’s not the real world. However where the lady is experienced then I ask myself who is the more likely guilty person if the meet is not a good one.

[unsunghero]

I have never cared for reviews, take them or leave them and i usually leave them, not important and its good to see how other countries do it and having spent many years and recently several weeks in Thailand and now being accepted there as a good tourist guy and someone who all want to meet, I love the feeling of walking into a bar and ladies flocking around you, that hardon pressing against your thigh and its not always about the cash in your hip pocket, its refreshing, you get a name for yourself for all the right reasons

[Paulstevens]

Hope you are all having a lovely Christmas day.

Being Christmas day, I'm home, stuffed and a tad bored so decided to have a read through the reviews. I honestly think that some reviewers have anger issues which are projected onto the lady. So much so that they are consciously aware that they will destroy someone's self confidence and not to mention credibility and income and still do it with a passion. There are subtle ways of saying you are not happy with certain things.

Reviews are a reflection of the reviewer - On the contrary to what many reviews believe, it is not just one sided. If when screening I happen to read an EI members reviews and see a big percentage of yellow star ratings, I will refuse an appointment. Why? Because the reviews shows the character of the reviewer and some guys for whatever reason are simply hard to please, no matter how much anyone tries.

I agree entirely with everything you say, I've given my opinion on reviews before and got slammed for it, but I will give my view again
I meet ladies as a " pick me up" after a difficult couple of day's or week, so I can be a little low going into appointment, my problem not the escorts. I would always attempt in so far as is possible to take my state of mind into account when assessing an encounter. I will always give an escort the benefit of any doubt, unless I felt she deliberately messed me around, and that has never happened
I do believe that a review is seen as either 100% perfection or shit, in that if we don't give a clean sweep of green stars, that there was a problem, which may not be the case
As was said earlier poor research into an escorts profile is a problem and may cause friction, some guys view to personal hygiene is an issue,
Once again it all comes back to RESPECT,
Anyone who is in business knows the impact any negative publicity has, and should be more appreciative of the efforts an escort makes to satisfy a customer
When analysing an encounter, I would advise guys to look in the mirror before blaming the escort, give it a fair assessment and I know there will be times for whatever reason yellow stars are needed, but give a fair and honest view

[homealone1]

I have never cared for reviews, take them or leave them and i usually leave them, not important and its good to see how other countries do it and having spent many years and recently several weeks in Thailand and now being accepted there as a good tourist guy and someone who all want to meet, I love the feeling of walking into a bar and ladies flocking around you, that hardon pressing against your thigh and its not always about the cash in your hip pocket, its refreshing, you get a name for yourself for all the right reasons

Translate you are looking for a piece of meat to treat like shit

You want a situation where there are plenty of desperate girls that they will do anything to get your money.

We could not be more opposite, I want to meet a lady or ladies ( I do love 3 sommes and have had plenty ) but I want the lady to feel she is respected and that we know each others wants and boundaries. I want a real true temporary girlfriend not just a quick shag. That can he gor in coppers any night of the week.