Do you girls tone it down in your social lives?

[Eagle87]

Picture the scene right: You're out with the girls in a club, and there's this fella. You can't take your eyes off this geezer and he can't take his eyes off you. There's obvious attraction. Couple of Jagerbombs later and he plucks up the courage to speak to you. And now there's not only physical attraction, but chemistry, and eventually you're both meeting the face off one another in the back of a taxi en route to his apartment. But you only went out looking for a one-night stand, not a potential boyfriend or husband, and so you don't see the need to reveal personal things about yourself - full name, hobbies, sexual preferences and, most importantly, occupation. Let's say he doesn't know you're an escort and whatever happens, you know in your heart that you're not staying the night, and that you'll most likely never see him again after leaving.

With all that in mind, what do you do: Do you take control sexually, utilise all of your experience to suck him and fuck him so good that he can't believe you're real, or do you tone down your experience and expertise and let him steer the ship?

I ask because if you make this fella cum so hard that he breaks his own toes by clenching them, he's probably going to want to ask for your number with a view toward asking you out for dinner or something. If you give him your best GFE experience without him knowing that's all it is (remember, you're not an escort in his eyes, just some girl he clicked with in a nightclub) then he might want you to be his actual girlfriend, but as mentioned this was a one-time thing for you and was from the very start.

So is it better to give this fella a night he'll never forget, but one he'll probably never have again, or is it better if you tone it down, make him think you're no more or less experienced sexually than any other Irish woman your age and have him forget you once the door closes. It's sort of a 'Loved and lost or never loved at all' kind of dilemma.

Zero judgement from me either way I genuinely think it's an interesting question.

[Floki]

Give out the wrong number, but if the geezer is quick, then he may try to call the number after.
So the lady maybe have to be honest in some sense and state that she isn't interested in anything but what the night brings.

[Eagle87]

So the lady maybe have to be honest in some sense and state that she isn't interested in anything but what the night brings.

Well that's a good point. If he knows, in the moment, that it's the last time it's ever going to happen then he might be able to appreciate it a little more, but even still, I think he'll shoot his shot and ask for her number before he's even gone flaccid again, and he's going to miss.

[SunSeaSex]

Give out the wrong number

That is mean. Makes it seem like the person likes you at the time so then it breaks your heart. Honesty is the best policy. Just refuse to give the number out.

I'd be happy to give escorts my number and I would saved under Good Client

[SteveB]

Give out the wrong number, but if the geezer is quick, then he may try to call the number after.
So the lady maybe have to be honest in some sense and state that she isn't interested in anything but what the night brings.

Or,
give him vague, ambiguous and indecipherable directions to her apartment.
[or tell him she has opted-out of reviews]

[SteveB]

One escort who showed me pictures of herself and her mate, who also advertises here, when they were on a night out. They were unrecognizable. They had completely dressed-down so as to not get unwanted attention.

[Not Tyler Durden]

Picture the scene right: You're out with the girls in a club, and there's this fella. You can't take your eyes off this geezer and he can't take his eyes off you. There's obvious attraction. Couple of Jagerbombs later and he plucks up the courage to speak to you. And now there's not only physical attraction, but chemistry, and eventually you're both meeting the face off one another in the back of a taxi en route to his apartment. But you only went out looking for a one-night stand, not a potential boyfriend or husband, and so you don't see the need to reveal personal things about yourself - full name, hobbies, sexual preferences and, most importantly, occupation. Let's say he doesn't know you're an escort and whatever happens, you know in your heart that you're not staying the night, and that you'll most likely never see him again after leaving.

With all that in mind, what do you do: Do you take control sexually, utilise all of your experience to suck him and fuck him so good that he can't believe you're real, or do you tone down your experience and expertise and let him steer the ship?

I ask because if you make this fella cum so hard that he breaks his own toes by clenching them, he's probably going to want to ask for your number with a view toward asking you out for dinner or something. If you give him your best GFE experience without him knowing that's all it is (remember, you're not an escort in his eyes, just some girl he clicked with in a nightclub) then he might want you to be his actual girlfriend, but as mentioned this was a one-time thing for you and was from the very start.

So is it better to give this fella a night he'll never forget, but one he'll probably never have again, or is it better if you tone it down, make him think you're no more or less experienced sexually than any other Irish woman your age and have him forget you once the door closes. It's sort of a 'Loved and lost or never loved at all' kind of dilemma.

Zero judgement from me either way I genuinely think it's an interesting question.

Very Jackie Collins. Do you write erotic fiction?

[SunSeaSex]

“ life’s a marathon , not a sprint “

Besides foreplay rocks !
If you put sex off the cards , the foreplay is 100 times better .
Guys will always try have sex straight away , with no effort in foreplay but
When sex ain’t going to happen , the revert to plan b , hours and hours and
Hours of foreplay .
Personally I can’t come through sex but the right foreplay and I’m dripping wet.

So there's no orgasming in appointments?

[Eagle87]

Very Jackie Collins. Do you write erotic fiction?

A more interesting question is do you read Jackie Collins lol.

[Eagle87]

But you can have chemistry with someone straight off the bat .
Playing hard to get is more fun and makes sex more exciting .
Any descent guy will wait .
The juice is usually worth the squeeze and anything worth having is hardwork.

I'd go along with that. There's a lot to be said for anticipation. The longer something is drawn out, the better it is, whether it's sex, films or when the Just Eat driver can't find the gaf. Being denied the pay-off of the suspense, but knowing you'll get it eventually, definitely heightens it when it comes.