Punter reviews?

[CaraClarke]

Think of it this way.

Scenario 1: your favourite escort is back in town and you're set on seeing her. She gets inundated with calls/text/emails, you and everyone else wants to see her on Thursday at 6pm, but you've sent a deposit to guarantee your time with her. You're making yourself priority, and showing her you respect her time enough not to waste it. You are penned in her diary for your requested time and date. You even have less cash to carry on the day (bonus points for legalities, right?).

Scenario 2: your favourite escort is back in town and you're set on seeing her. You call and request Thursday at 6pm and she books you in. She's turned away several other clients, because maybe you were the first to call or confirm the booking. You cancel on the day (or worse - no show), and now she's lost that potential income, and it's too late for her to make it up by seeing someone else. Now she's upset, out of pocket, and you're in her bad books.

The obvious problem is a lack of trust from both parties. But a) why would you want to see someone who you don't trust and feel is professional?, and b) what reputable escort would really risk their reputation over 20 quid? Especially when she can make the full amount from actually following through on her commitment and seeing her client? Don't look at is as someone trying to 'scam' you, but as a woman trying to run her business efficiently and with financial security, and clients should see it as making themselves a priority and establishing trust with a provider.

Everyone will have a different approach when it comes to deposits. Some women will take them for new clients, and won't ask again after she meets you and knows you're upstanding. Others will ask every time just for peace of mind. And maybe some don't ask at all, but if you screw them over, good luck trying to book her ever again. Unfortunately, there are escorts who will take advantage and I'm not at all defending them. They should be flagged and avoided. But mostly, we're just trying to guarantee some stability in an already hectic job and lifestyle.

[Southpaw]

True, when i saw she was coming to Derry i was def gonna book. I got in touch to ask for a meet, but she wasn't free, so i suggested first free appointment Monday morning. She said she didnt do advance bookings, so i said fine, i'll just call early on Monday. Thats when i got the text back saying she'd seen i had a bad rep and would like a deposit.
TBH, the deposit thing is annoying, as i'm not risking that showing up on my joint bank account, but the main irk was the fact that she was apparently reading things about me that other escorts have said. I really am a genuine decent punter, but i guess i have learned over the years taht if my gut says there is something not quite right then i should stay away anyway.
The pickings in Derry are slim to say the least. Will just stick to seeing ladies in Belfast area when i'm working there.

i would trust the gut always.

[MarkM2020]

Absolutely agree, but you'd be surprised how hard it is to find a decent escort in Derry out of the vast number who come to work here.
Oh i wish i was back in Manchester lol

Would you not travel to a different county if you're struggling to find a "decent" escort? There's on average 600-700 escorts advertising a week, surely there's at least one with a good amount of reviews and well established in traveling distance?

[nobbers]

Would you not travel to a different county if you're struggling to find a "decent" escort? There's on average 600-700 escorts advertising a week, surely there's at least one with a good amount of reviews and well established in traveling distance?

Have travelled to Letterkenny once on the basis of an escort with good reviews, but then was given the run around 'text me in 5 mins', 'just getting ready, give me ten mins more' etc etc. Only a half hour drive, but still didn't feel right.

I work a lot across Belfast way and now down towards Dublin, so i will be trying a few new ones in the coming months.

BTW - i offered to pay the deposit this morning to the escort in question and was still refused "Couldnt care less what you think.....not worth my attention, time etc..." So i guess a lucky escape in the end. All i know is whatever has been said/written about me on the secret escort punter forum must be pretty bad lol

[Southpaw]

Have travelled to Letterkenny once on the basis of an escort with good reviews, but then was given the run around 'text me in 5 mins', 'just getting ready, give me ten mins more' etc etc. Only a half hour drive, but still didn't feel right.

I work a lot across Belfast way and now down towards Dublin, so i will be trying a few new ones in the coming months.

BTW - i offered to pay the deposit this morning to the escort in question and was still refused "Couldnt care less what you think.....not worth my attention, time etc..." So i guess a lucky escape in the end. All i know is whatever has been said/written about me on the secret escort punter forum must be pretty bad lol

if you need some recommendations around Dublin let me know. maybe also change your phone number.

[nobbers]

Not changing my phone number on the back of some idle gossip and one bad experience.
Like everyone said, there are plenty of good escorts out there - just need to find them.

[MarkM2020]

Have travelled to Letterkenny once on the basis of an escort with good reviews, but then was given the run around 'text me in 5 mins', 'just getting ready, give me ten mins more' etc etc. Only a half hour drive, but still didn't feel right.

I work a lot across Belfast way and now down towards Dublin, so i will be trying a few new ones in the coming months.

BTW - i offered to pay the deposit this morning to the escort in question and was still refused "Couldnt care less what you think.....not worth my attention, time etc..." So i guess a lucky escape in the end. All i know is whatever has been said/written about me on the secret escort punter forum must be pretty bad lol

Stuff like that happens. I personally travel over an hour to Dublin and 95% of the time everything went perfectly.

Of course when things go wrong it can feel worse because you've travelled so far to see someone but I wouldn't let that get you too down.

[ford pefect]

Found out yesterday from a lady I contacted that I have a bad reputation on EI and she said she wouldn’t see me unless I paid a deposit! This was news to me as I thought I was a pretty decent punter. She told me some girls said I over stayed and am rude, but that simply isn’t true. I guess as a punter we have no control over this, but it’s still annoying and is the kind of thing that is pushing me away from using this site.

How would you find out what kind of reputation you have with the escorts (asking for a friend)

[nobbers]

I honestly dont know. Someone yesterday mentioned the name of a site which escorts use to rate punters/flag them as rime wasters etc, so that escorts ca avoid them. Which is fair enough, its pretty much the reverse of the review system on here. Bit miffed when an escort tells you have a bad rep based on some feedback left by others though.

[Southpaw]

Not changing my phone number on the back of some idle gossip and one bad experience.
Like everyone said, there are plenty of good escorts out there - just need to find them.

it's a 10'er - half of the 20 euro LOL
If you really wanted to meet the girl change your SIM LOL

i can recommend you some escorts in Dublin if you pm me what type you like