I do think we forget some of what went on before , there were some serious factions formed around certain escorts and all hell broke lose on line and indeed it spread to real time stuff as I recall , just remember at one stage no night mods , it was BONKERS even recently some exceptionally disgraceful threats and misogyny to be seen . When I see some newbies saying it is a bit aggressive, I am like not so much in comparison.
The VPN issue and GDPR have made it difficult to ban those we might call the Viruses on here , thats one issue
Second is that because those attacks by that group went on so long it stopped many escorts from posting as Harry says . The rules were not applied before or v v lose application
In the old days the Chat Room allowed a far more friendly place to share views and for new guys to get a sense of how to play the forum and indeed to get to know girls
About 2 years ago the downturn happened ,the first full on attack of an appreciation thread occurred and from there it got worse and worse , some established members went and got themselves many IDs on here so they could fuck with other members , not long after rep points got going and then the thumbs down on reviews
Now we have rating of threads as a game as evidenced by an attempt to downgrade a EOTM thread recently .
There is competition and it is I believe that which put a stop to the constant re emergence of the repulsive trolls , up to that the Mods it seems felt it was spectator sport as some of us worked to get them dealt with , now amazeballs they are gone v fast, !!! . Competition is certainly healthy
Not sure what the answer are but . Mods need to find balance , some who cannot stand their ground should not be pandered to by Mods on delete delete delete . Newbies need to be willing to listen a bit at times and if they can see that due to history all newbies are checked out due to the Viruses re forming as newbies .
Above all else stop having a go at escorts without reason and even if you have be respectful . The balance between assertive /advocacy and aggression is not well managed by many . I have had I think 3 fall outs with escorts here in 7 years . One on Findom which I disagree with one because they went at people with depression and one because they were acting up on another escort which I was aware of . Two of those we now get on just fine , mostly !!
Me no saint been banned 3 times , just sayin . Ball in our hands Mods hands , KPI will be more girls posting simple as.
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