For ppl that come looking for help and all of this "i wonder how it will effect me deep within my soul" etc. or "is this morally wrong" or im afraid i will crash" etc

FFS look its like this.

Heres a formula,

Life = purpose / daily activities.

In other words if something doesnt suit your purpose in life then dump it.If it suits your purpose in life keep it.

Hardly rocket science,
Westside.