Nervous to approach but need to lose virginity

[DiablosLittleBrother]

What happened to having sex with a hypothetical girlfriend and lying with her afterwards? The point you were making before is that sex is better with a girlfriend... but now you're saying he should go to a club and shag a random stranger. So what are you actually trying to say?

The second point is... the scenario you described doesn't actually happen in the real world. Do you seriously think any woman likes to be seen as the left over woman who men go after in a club because they think it's an easy fuck? Any man who tries to go after the unattractive woman in a club is going to find himself rejected, fast, and be on the receiving end of looks of disapproval from her friends. If you had ever followed your own advice, you would know this already.

So rather than OP taking some really shit advice and trying, unsuccessfully, to shag a stranger from a club, I think selecting a nice escort from this website would be a better idea, provided he has the money for it.

He is not going to tell her she is the leftover girl!! Ugly girls have to get fellas too.
Why would I go for an ugly girl. No sense in that.

[Punter08]

[FranknStein]

He is not going to tell her she is the leftover girl!! Ugly girls have to get fellas too.
Why would I go for an ugly girl. No sense in that.

An ugly soul may have to settle for an ugly girl till the girl realises she is a swan.

[irl69]

There’s two schools of thought on the
Matter, yes and no.

I did it , in my early 20’s

I’ve no regrets and that was 11 years ago

Feel
Free to message me with any questions and I’ll do my best to answer


Also: this can be a very expensive and addictive hobby, especially when you’re as young as that! So take that into consideration too


Peace

[Jonny0]

I’m not sure if losing your virginity to an escort is a good idea, In my experience good sex with a good escort far exceeds domestic sex with a non escort,

Yeah but i dont think i will ever have sex unless i visit an escort

[Jonny0]

I'm pretty sure that OP does not have a girlfriend. If he had a girlfriend, then it's unlikely that he would have made this post on this message board, rather than discussing it with his girlfriend instead.

I think sex is an enjoyable experience, regardless of whether it's free or paid for. OP should choose an escort who is well-established, considerate, and trustworthy.

Yes i do not have a girlfriend, nor have i ever

[Mij]

Yeah but i dont think i will ever have sex unless i visit an escort

JonnyO, losing your virginity is not an amazing experience, for me it happened on a slab of concrete with pebbles digging into my knees, with a smell of urine wafting through the air, under a stand at a rugby club in D4, it was shit and not something I think about all that much.
Go and enjoy it in a comfy bedroom with a beautiful woman from this site and let your confidence grow from there. Once you find out that having sex is fairly straightforward your anxiety will go away and you will be confident enough to possibly start looking for a regular relationship. I think your confidence will improve by going for it with a lady on here.

[Jonny0]

Thank you all for all the advice,i am gonna try build up courage to visit a lady, there is a few who visit my town frequently and get great reviews so i will be on the lookout

[Jonny0]

I was actually considering this myself a while back, thanks for advice

[FargoBoyle]

I'm in my 20s and still a virgin, i really want to lose it but i'm so nervous to even talk to women,i have social anxiety, anybody else similar to me or have advice,i would really appreciate help

best advice is join a gym or just get out amongst the people and mingle, just get involved, it will give you the confidence to meet a girl and maybe have your first experience where you don't have to pay for it, after that if you wish go visit escorts then good luck to you