Originally Posted by
FetishCherry
I never heard someone to be judged because he paid for sex. What is here to be judged? Can u be so kind to explain me what is to judge in to visiting a girl and pay for sex? Honestly. The only judgement i came across against guys who pay for sex was coming from media and women outside escorting world, they judge u considering u dirty and pervert but this is because they think our clients are perverts who ''buy a woman body' their opinion about you is twisted that why they judge, but an escort knows u not a maniac, pervert like media thik, they see u are a nice guy who just need sex or just intimacy with a beautiful woman so whats here to be judged?
That is still an enormous portion of society, pretty much half the world.
There is enormous stigma when it comes to escorting and hence why so many escorts change their names and hide their faces. Then as well a lot of escorts dont escort in their home area/country. They go abroad or to a different part of their country, if the country is big like america or china.
You dont see the punters themselves coming out saying they are visiting escorts. They would lose a lot if they did.
But i agree. The stigma is coming mainly from other women, for various reasons. I remember reading about a bipolar man who went on a sex binge visiting escorts when he was manic and his wife was horrified. Her reasoning was that she would have preferred him to cheat with a woman who was not an escort. There was sort of a humiliation in that he cheated on her with escorts. There was a thread on the boards about what a woman would do if she knew a guy she liked was visiting escorts. The vast majority of women said they would not date such a guy.
"The mass of men live lives of quiet desperation" - Henry David Thoreau.