Hot ways to ask for consent!

[Lara Mills]

A lot of the things I write about on the blogs come from deep conversations in real life... or arguments that I've had with people. Recently, some of my friends tried to tell me that there is no good way to ask for consent. They said that asking for it "ruins the moment" and "spoils the fun". So they just don't ask.

I called bullshit and have written down some hot ways you can ask for consent. Turns out that there are a lot. I even found a list online with 50 ways you can ask. And to me, none of them are awkward to say.

What's the sexiest way you've been asked for consent?

[Forceuser]

Original Post deleted - Floki

I like to whisper my request between kisses

[Stephanie]

Ya, I agree with you Stephanie, and how are they going to feel comfortable looking for a condom.

I knooow !! kinda scary if you think about it

Consent is 100% important indeed Stephanie but once consent is given then it shouldn't get in the way when passions start to run high.
Anyhow,we all must bear in mind that consent can be withdrawn at any time and if it is then that decision has to be respected and accepted by the person who has been refused consent to continue plain and simple.

You are exactly right Jay , No always means NO .

I like to whisper my request between kisses

That’s sexy xx

[Mr Sweet Guy]

A lot of the things I write about on the blogs come from deep conversations in real life... or arguments that I've had with people. Recently, some of my friends tried to tell me that there is no good way to ask for consent. They said that asking for it "ruins the moment" and "spoils the fun". So they just don't ask.

I called bullshit and have written down some hot ways you can ask for consent. Turns out that there are a lot. I even found a list online with 50 ways you can ask. And to me, none of them are awkward to say.

What's the sexiest way you've been asked for consent?

Great Blog Lara.... One I will print and take with me on my next visit to a Lady. So I can ask and express Consent to the Lady in so many different way.

Only problem I kind of do already do that and it not really working. Because it annoy the Lady, when I ask her can we do this or can i touch this. To which she hush, and say be quiet or stop asking about it.

So asking Consent is absolute important in any situation. But it kind of true it does ruin the moment if Consent ask more then once. I have experience it in lot of my meeting with Ladies here, to which it certainly does ruin the fun and moment !

Sexiest way was when one Lady put her hand to my mouth and dug her nail in my chest, said baby don't ask just do it now I was petrified of her for few minutes after, until lust took over me

[Martin Ward]

There are certainly different situations where consent deffo should be required. When you are comfortable with someone, like in a relationship, the gradual move towards sex is littered with invisible lines where you know if someone is up for it or not.

If I meet one of you hot ladies on a night out, I would be careful about just going in for a kiss as I may misread the signals.....

[Floki]

Why is there a post deleted on this thread.

Hi there,

I have deleted some posts in the thread for those who had requested it.
This is something that I have decided not to state why.

Posts are deleted, there isn't much else to discuss in this case.


Floki.

[Mr Sweet Guy]

Fantastic, will you Sweet?
That'd be hilarious, I read every word and phrase from the thesaurus the other night, can't remember what we were doing or what I was reading though :-/

For you Irish Sarah, I will do and take Lara Blog copy with me on my visit. We can then try out few consent request, if we get stuck on one we skip that and the chair and I'll just say..... I'll love to t*uch, K*ss, l*ck, Sp*nk F*ck you right now. Can I Sarah please

Star on explicit words, mean you a Lady and need to be respected I will say them words in person, if I am really lucky to be in your acquaintance Irish Star

We where trying to fix your shower, which turn sweaty and water cool us off. But feel the shower will need a re fix soon, so I pop by another time to fix it. You just need to hold the knob Sarah in right position, too much to left or right is no good

And after we tidy up your bed that we ransack which my fault Sarah because I kept slipping and tripping up on your blankets, as you trying to lay the blankets on the bed !

We decide then Sarah ! Test out the blankets to see if they warm enough naked, as wearing clothes on is cheating. It was huge success, as the blankets where too warm and we decide to ditch them instead with both our Consent !

Rest I can't remember fully what happen after. As it was in daze of very high intense energy, to which I feel a shower was use after and I left drain and exhausted when I left. That why I think the shower need a re fix now Sarah with your Consent first

But I know I left feeling on cloud 10 with a job well done ! Ohh yeah check the wardrobe Sarah, as I am not sure if someone there or not. If anyone is there, then they had no Consent to be there

That what happen Sarah, the other night in my lovely night dream
But a dream can become a reality with Consent of a person wishes

Good night IrishSarahBarra

[Barney Rubble]

Perfect place for MSG

This thread was ment for you MsG lol

But how much longer are his posts gonna be now for Christ's sake?