Nervous about making first escort date, HELP!!

[AlwaysAddicted]

I am the same I tend to trip over my words on the phone sometimes, I can understand why most escorts only accept phone calls but a quick text would be so much more convenient in my opionion

[AlwaysAddicted]

And for you newbies, for the love of God get a cheap pay as you go punting phone.

Doesn't matter if you're single or living on your own, the last thing you want is for your regular life and your punting life getting mixed up. You're visiting mammy and the escort you've sent a PM too responds with a naughty message just as you've left the phone down. Or you mix up Marie from work with Marie from here, and you've sent her a text looking to ride her senseless for an hour at 8.00 if she's free...

Seriously though, much smaller chance of getting caught if you use cash to buy a Tesco mobile and keep going sensible.

I always thought my early phone calls were far too brief. 'Hi, X here, was wondering if you were available at 8 tonight for an hour? Oh great, I'll make a booking. And will confirm 30 mins beforehand. Thanks, bye'. Then realise that I've got none of the details I really wanted. Might be no harm in jotting down some of the questions you want answered. They don't expect a long interview in any case. Texts or PMs are close to useless unless you have built up a relationship with a girl.

Above all, don't be an asshole. Stick to the girls that are verified and have good reviews and you'll be fine to start with.

I don't feel the need to get a separate phone though, I have nothing to hide and I don't really care who sees what is on my screen, as for the possible mix up I would probably not save any numbers,just ring when needed and delete the number after so I don't accidentally message wrong person, but I see why it could be an idea to get a burner phone as I presume there are people on here that aren't as free and wild as myself. But the jotting down of questions seems a good idea so you know what you're getting in to.

[gonzo76]

I don't feel the need to get a separate phone though, I have nothing to hide and I don't really care who sees what is on my screen, as for the possible mix up I would probably not save any numbers,just ring when needed and delete the number after so I don't accidentally message wrong person, but I see why it could be an idea to get a burner phone as I presume there are people on here that aren't as free and wild as myself. But the jotting down of questions seems a good idea so you know what you're getting in to.

Let me give you an example. I'm single so not hiding anything from a wife or girlfriend, but one escort I met early on, I used my own phone for it.

Randomly, a few months later she texted me to let me know she was in the area again.

Now I am single but I don't expect that will always be the case and I have friends and relatives who can get access to my phone. For example a few weeks back I visited a friend and showed her a photo on my phone, then it got handed around, her toddler took the phone and had it for about 30 mins.

Can you honestly say you really don't have any issue with someone spotting your extra curricular hobby? If so why use "always addicted" as your username?

[Cannonshot88]

Hello everyone,

New to the site and I'd like to start punting but I have a massive amount of nerves and don't know how to go about it exactly, it begins with making a phone call to my favourite lady, which already makes me feel anxious as silly as it sounds, and the whole arrangement itself I don't know what to say on the phone to make a booking, I have had sex many times before but the thought of doing it with an escort who has more than likely had many sexual partners gives me performance anxiety! Id like to just call up and say hey, I'd like to have a good time, I'm leaving it in your hands, couldn't exactly do that though......could you? Also im unsure about hygiene aspects, I am a clean person but for a date should I be clean shaven in the appropriate places and extra extra clean? Thanks for any advice offered

you might not get rid of the nerves even after the first visit and its nothing to be worried about. i was and kinda still am in the same boat. nerves sometimes actually stop me making my next booking...but then i think back to my previous bookings. these lovely woman cater to your needs if you are polite and respectful. in my experience they dont care that you ar shy or nervous. infact some prefer it haha. it means youll be more respectful.

phone call i usually just greet the lady. ask if shes available - usually on the day but try to book slightly in advance to avoid disappointment. state how long youd like to book and if her favs are included in booking or extra.
DO NOT be ashamed to make her know its your first time - it makes it easier for BOTH parties.

maybe an extra tip to solely help with nerves. although it may be difficult to obtain the info.
i dont like driving or going into areas i dont know of. if its possible to obtain a rough location of where the lady is based it can help you decide on who you want to book with. im not saying this is a must. but in the past it has been a deal maker for me. i knew the area therefore nerves where a bit more settled.
trust me when i say this. when the door opens and you are greeted with a smile and a woman who is aiming to please you. your nerves will disintegrate

hygiene. wash srcub and smell like you are going to visit a goddess and you will be treated like a god.
shaven? think most prefer shaven but if you arent i would just recommend a trim / tidy up at least?
do not worry about performance. they arent there to compare and rate you.
if you are that worried about your performance then its simple....make your first booking a booking without intercourse - enjoy another form of pleasure instead. baby steps if needs be.

im based in belfast and currently looking for my next booking this week. its my...5th booking and im still as nervous as the first. but i know its nothing to be ashamed of or worried about because with the right booking you will be looked after.
please make sure to review your booking after your meeting and please make sure you book a lady with verified photos and profile. and reviews.

[AlwaysAddicted]

Let me give you an example. I'm single so not hiding anything from a wife or girlfriend, but one escort I met early on, I used my own phone for it.

Randomly, a few months later she texted me to let me know she was in the area again.

Now I am single but I don't expect that will always be the case and I have friends and relatives who can get access to my phone. For example a few weeks back I visited a friend and showed her a photo on my phone, then it got handed around, her toddler took the phone and had it for about 30 mins.

Can you honestly say you really don't have any issue with someone spotting your extra curricular hobby? If so why use "always addicted" as your username?

Yeah, I see your point, I suppose I wouldn't like to announce it to everyone in my circle,never really even entered my mind what people would think about it if an explicit message appeared on my phone while they were holding it. It's a username, its just what popped into my head haha I don't think anyone uses a real name on here, do they?

[gonzo76]

Yeah, I see your point, I suppose I wouldn't like to announce it to everyone in my circle,never really even entered my mind what people would think about it if an explicit message appeared on my phone while they were holding it. It's a username, its just what popped into my head haha I don't think anyone uses a real name on here, do they?

My birth cert says gonzo, I've no idea what you mean!

Also bear in mind the legalities, are you sure you want to have your personal phone in use should you get stopped, or the more likely event, if an escort is stirred and forced to hand over her phone?

[micar]

I do be very nervous. Haven't visited an escort in a few years. But in the last two weeks I've the urge. Think I just need to get it out of my system.

[celtdick]

And for you newbies, for the love of God get a cheap pay as you go punting phone.

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Can the SIM be set up and used these days without having to supply your name and address ?