Originally Posted by
Jont82
I'm a newbie here, my first punt was less than 2 weeks ago. Up until now, most of my experiences have been fairly vanilla.
I want to try adding some pain to the mix, but I'm not really interested in being a slave or being humiliated. That being said, I'm open to the idea of the lady taking control, in a teacher or aunt kind of way.
The only ads I can see that list BDSM are Dom's, and having no experience with them, I don't know if they offer full service. Is BDSM even the right thing to be looking for?
I'm in the southwest, and don't mind waiting for a tour to come this way.
Jont82