I am now middle aged and occasional visits to escorts fulfil a need that otherwise would go unrequited. I am no longer a 'great catch' and I don't expect an escort to be attracted to me. However when visiting an escort I treat the occasion as a date. I shower and shave and wear totally clean clothes and aftershave etc. Also I would agree a price based on the escort's website and I would never haggle over that price. I pay up front as and when requested. That is my side of the bargain I expect the escort to be a good actor and to try to make me believe that we are both having a great time. That is your side of the bargain. If I am visiting an escort I try to agree the cheapest price available from them but if I am returning I often pay more if that is justified. I have even brought a bottle of wine to one escort who asked me to do so (we didn't drink it, she wanted it for later.) The worst experience with an escort is if that escort simply 'goes through the motions'. Yes you are all beautiful but that isn't enough. We are paying for a fantasy and part of that fantasy is that you fancy us the same way as we fancy you.