#ThisIsNotConsent - Protests Sweeping The Nation

[philipkntz]

“Pursued” - by horny boys who know their place and boundaries and what is Allowed and What is Not !



On one occasion I played pool in a dark back room of a bar in Manhattan Beach sans panties ,

tiny little white dress , riding up my bum even if I was just standing , let alone making the 8 shot .

My chaperone / companion >> local surfer guy known in community had left me in care of another ,

I’d had waaahaay too much to drink , yet I played pool half the night , surely flashed cuchie at half the

patrons , yet at end of My night , I was escorted back to my Surf Bud’s abode unharmed .

: Clothing choices may on occasion be foolish , but NEVER an invitation to rape !!!



Had a great night there ; remember it still , not in the least for my foolishness .

Sunk some balls , poolshark x

So? Perhaps you were not in the company of a rapist. Not all males are rapists.

And the population of Manhattan Beach are familiar with generous displays of female anatomy. It's a little different in Ireland.

But I do like your comment

Clothing choices may on occasion be foolish , but NEVER an invitation to rape !!!

[philipkntz]

I was wondering when he would be challenged like this good on you Stephanie . The premise of this guys argument seems to be that there are convicted rapists prowling every street in Ireland , well he does not define the number. But it seems this cohort lets say 100 of them have the power to change the behaviour of maybe 500,000 women . It seems he says its not a women's fault BUT they should act/dress with more care or accept/face/be responsible for the consequences. Those who support his position..Enough said.Not once have I seen that men have a responsibility, its all them rapists them convicted freed ones and how a girl dresses , nor an appreciation of the suppression of other rape victims by all this

The elephant in the corner here is why so many cases fail and how this enables men to go for it . This guy to me is not capable of seeing connecting the dots and his logic as he sees it makes it futile to challenge him. The tragedy of this case is it will yet again discourage women from reporting , The Paddy Jackson trial was one of the greatest disservices to Women's justice in this country and now this carry on and whether this guy likes it or not his posts support that culture, he just cannot see it , I generally ignore his posts but this one I think not

So, would you have us believe that there are no rapists out there? Maybe they are all safely locked up? Why then can we not open a newspaper without reading of

yet another case of rape? Are people making these cases up?

Get real. People are getting raped, not just women, but men, women and children, even animals aren't safe, and our prison system has a revolving door.

Several years ago the people of this country were asked to give up their weapons and the state would keep them safe.

The state is failing miserably, people are not being protected. That is what I am saying. Stop twisting my words.

[beautyaddict]

So, would you have us believe that there are no rapists out there? Maybe they are all safely locked up? Why then can we not open a newspaper without reading of

yet another case of rape? Are people making these cases up?

Get real. People are getting raped, not just women, but men, women and children, even animals aren't safe, and our prison system has a revolving door.

Several years ago the people of this country were asked to give up their weapons and the state would keep them safe.

The state is failing miserably, people are not being protected. That is what I am saying. Stop twisting my words.

If you want to debate try to read properly, if you cant do not bother , your posts are getting a consistent response you just cannot see it . I suggest you get real and read properly ,, twisting of words , I suggest you take a bow , would you like to address the consequences of this court case perhaps. All you have done so far is agreed with that Barrister than women should not wear a thong for their own safety. Your post reinforces a culture mine seeks to change it. I sense this is a bit much for you to appreciate or grasp

[philipkntz]

If you want to debate try to read properly, if you cant do not bother , your posts are getting a consistent response you just cannot see it . I suggest you get real and read properly ,, twisting of words , I suggest you take a bow , would you like to address the consequences of this court case perhaps. All you have done so far is agreed with that Barrister than women should not wear a thong for their own safety. Your post reinforces a culture mine seeks to change it. I sense this is a bit much for you to appreciate or grasp

The consequence that I see is that another potential rapist has been freed.

I actually don't have a problem with women wearing thongs but some women foolishly flash them in public, especially when drinking to excess. Even then, most men will want to protect them from harm. But all it takes is to meet the wrong person and it could be like a red flag to a bull.

[beautyaddict]

The consequence that I see is that another potential rapist has been freed.

I actually don't have a problem with women wearing thongs but some women foolishly flash them in public, especially when drinking to excess. Even then, most men will want to protect them from harm. But all it takes is to meet the wrong person and it could be like a red flag to a bull.

Let me spell it out for you
If a woman is raped in the coming week and as she sits at home considering whether to report or not ,or just go into the shower for hours . She is aware of this case . She she was wearing a thong , do you think that this case will give her confidence to seek justice ? Her under ware being brandished in court for all to see to be reported on the news . The perception that her under ware somehow makes her culpable to blame ? Would she be worried that a juror might share your view even marginally ?

Your post suggesting women need to be careful , and now if they are drunk another concern . That thinking is a reinforcement of what that Barrister did . A woman's dress choice can be used against her . We need to crush that perception and give women every confidence that our society will support them not judge them on their choice of clothing .

You may not have intended to support that Barrister and that culture of "She was asking for it" but to me you have, maybe only marginally but to me you have because it is culture and behaviour we need to change through education and setting a clear precedent to give women confidence in our system . Your post may well be well intended but it perhaps can be seen that women can be blamed , a man can walk free . How many rapes now go unreported ?

I tend to be very black and white n certain issues this is one of them no ambiguity for me none , this case a disgrace , so anything that even marginally if non intentionally supports it I am on it

[philipkntz]

If you want to debate try to read properly, if you cant do not bother , your posts are getting a consistent response you just cannot see it . I suggest you get real and read properly ,, twisting of words , I suggest you take a bow , would you like to address the consequences of this court case perhaps. All you have done so far is agreed with that Barrister than women should not wear a thong for their own safety. Your post reinforces a culture mine seeks to change it. I sense this is a bit much for you to appreciate or grasp

Not something that I normally look at but since you mention it, I've taken a look. My posts on this thread appear to have 7 times more likes than your has, and I have received several positive PM and only a few negative.
Regarding my reading properly, I did only learn to read properly since leaving formal education but I think that I have brought myself up to speed. Typing is much easier than writing and spell checker is brilliant. My biggest problem lately is knowing when, to use them fookin commas, but I appear to be a step ahead of you on that one.

[philipkntz]

Let me spell it out for you
If a woman is raped in the coming week and as she sits at home considering whether to report or not ,or just go into the shower for hours . She is aware of this case . She she was wearing a thong , do you think that this case will give her confidence to seek justice ? Her under ware being brandished in court for all to see to be reported on the news . The perception that her under ware somehow makes her culpable to blame ? Would she be worried that a juror might share your view even marginally ?

Your post suggesting women need to be careful , and now if they are drunk another concern . That thinking is a reinforcement of what that Barrister did . A woman's dress choice can be used against her . We need to crush that perception and give women every confidence that our society will support them not judge them on their choice of clothing .

You may not have intended to support that Barrister and that culture of "She was asking for it" but to me you have, maybe only marginally but to me you have because it is culture and behaviour we need to change through education and setting a clear precedent to give women confidence in our system . Your post may well be well intended but it perhaps can be seen that women can be blamed , a man can walk free . How many rapes now go unreported ?

I tend to be very black and white n certain issues this is one of them no ambiguity for me none , this case a disgrace , so anything that even marginally if non intentionally supports it I am on it

Ok. I'm wrong. BA and Stephanie have me converted.
From now on, women should go knickerless, in short dresses that ride up even when standing. Then they wont get raped and even if they do, the barristers won't have any underwear to pass around the jury.
Problem solved. I'm going to bed.

[beautyaddict]

Not something that I normally look at but since you mention it, I've taken a look. My posts on this thread appear to have 7 times more likes than your has, and I have received several positive PM and only a few negative.
Regarding my reading properly, I did only learn to read properly since leaving formal education but I think that I have brought myself up to speed. Typing is much easier than writing and spell checker is brilliant. My biggest problem lately is knowing when, to use them fookin commas, but I appear to be a step ahead of you on that one.

Thats pathetic , if thats your base to work from , I have a phrase TSTB , it applies to this post.

[Martin Ward]

Where are we on the "asking for trouble" vs "asking for it", nowhere?

Leaving out the clothes issue which has been done to death, a better use of the difference is the alcohol example.

We do not live in Utopia and there are vile people who will take advantage of the vulnerable. A woman should be able to go out and get as hammered as possible, but when that happens she can be the victim of assaults. That isn't 'asking for it' but it could be called 'asking for trouble'. I would never tell my daughter to go out and get in a state where she can't defend herself as to do so is 'empowering' and if she is attacked it is just the rapists fault. I will tell her to keep her wits about her, as I would my son for that matter as no wish for him to get mugged or violently assaulted.

I would certainly stick clear of terms like 'asking for trouble' though and replace with 'leaving yourself vulnerable'. It is open to too much misinterpretation. Language is important.

[annabel taylor]

Reading some opinions here


Wow.....

Scumbags

Suppose if im raped while working tis merely shop lifting eh asking for it with my add and taken money those men have the right to now do what they want with me eh fuck my ass till it bleeds sure im paid and a whore if he doesnt pay sure tis only shop lifting

Cunts hope yer cocks fucking rot of ye disgrace of humans