Cocaine

[StevieB1980]

I recently found out at a party that one of my best friends has taken/snorted cocaine on a few occasions (that I know of hopefully not more than that but can't be 100% sure as I am hardly watching every move she makes) and I am really worried about it.
I am not casting asperions on anyone here who does take cocaine as I don't know enough about it....it's just I have never snorted cocaine in my life (despite my curiousity as to what it's like to take and the high you get from it) as it scares me because of overdosing,it's addictiveness and side effects like paranoia.
Any advice on what to do???

[Stephanie]

I recently found out at a party that one of my best friends has taken/snorted cocaine on a few occasions (that I know of hopefully not more than that but can't be 100% sure as I am hardly watching every move she makes) and I am really worried about it.
I am not casting asperions on anyone here who does take cocaine as I don't know enough about it....it's just
I have never snorted cocaine in my life (despite my curiousity as to what it's like to take and the high you get from it) as it scares me because of overdosing,it's addictiveness and side effects like paranoia.
Any advice on what to do???

Don’t .

Just don’t . Best advice x







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[StevieB1980]

Don’t .

Just don’t . Best advice x







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I don't want to take it just don't know what to say to my friend to make her stop....I have tried just still think she is taking it on occasion.

[Stephanie]

If she’s not hooked (unlikely imho) , a friendly talking to re the dangers of becoming addicted may do the trick .

Dunno how old she is or how long or how much how often she’s been taking it , occasionally or more

regularly .. dunno if she’s at the stage of ‘ah sure if it’s there why not’ , or she’s at the stage of pursuing it ,

choosing to hang out w people based on if it’s available or not , dunno if she’s at the stage of buying it

herself , ....of course must keep in mind that even if she’s just doing it at parties , nothing is for ‘free’ !!!

I hope she’s just dabbling in it for her sake , and your ‘talking-to’ would bring result xx

Honestly , I doubt it , but hopeful .

May want to consult a counselor specializing in substance dependence .

[StevieB1980]

If she’s not hooked (unlikely imho) , a friendly talking to re the dangers of becoming addicted may do the trick .

Dunno how old she is or how long or how much how often she’s been taking it , occasionally or more

regularly .. dunno if she’s at the stage of ‘ah sure if it’s there why not’ , or she’s at the stage of pursuing it ,

choosing to hang out w people based on if it’s available or not , dunno if she’s at the stage of buying it

herself , ....of course must keep in mind that even if she’s just doing it at parties , nothing is for ‘free’ !!!

I hope she’s just dabbling in it for her sake , and your ‘talking-to’ would bring result xx

Honestly , I doubt it , but hopeful .

May want to consult a counselor specializing in substance dependence .

She is just dabbling in it and only takes it at parties as cocaine is at most parties these days....she has never bought any herself thankfully.
True nothing is for free and the guys take it with her just so they can have sex with her as she is very good looking.
She is in 31 seeing you asked thanks Xx

[Stephanie]

She is just dabbling in it and only takes it at parties as cocaine is at most parties these days....she has never bought any herself thankfully.
True nothing is for free and the guys take it with her just so they can have sex with her as she is very good looking.
She is in 31 seeing you asked thanks Xx

She should know better at that age , but all humans are fallible xx

I’d worry for her ;

don’t know how close you guys are ;

: If you truly care , I’d recommend consulting a specialist counselor .

What I may say here may be of help — or not .

Do turn to a professional for advice ASAP if you can , if you want to help x

[Stephanie]

Once they start to dabble, they don't see sense until they hit rock bottom. The kindest thing might be to see that she gets there asap.

She is just dabbling in it — that you know of ;
and only takes it at parties — that you know of as cocaine is at most parties these days....
she has never bought any herself — that you know of thankfully.

True nothing is for free and the guys take it with her just so they can have sex with her as she is very good looking.

— so she has sex with strangers for a few lines of cocaine ...

She is in 31 seeing you asked thanks Xx

It’s much more than dabbling Stevie , I’d say time to call in full cavalry to rescue :

intervention ? Counseling ? Nothing will work until and unless She wants to quit .

And in many many cases That will not be until she hits Rock Bottom as said above ...

Sad .

Hope she comes out intact at the other end .

Not only ‘psychologically’ , but altogether {mentally , emotionally, Physically}

— no STI caught along the way , no unwanted pregnancy , no physical assault ,

no sexual assault , no rape , not ending up getting pimped out .. not ending up

turned onto more and worse drugs , shooting up ..

it’s a bad world for the vulnerable .


: Requiem for a Dream : ??? xxx

[Stephanie]

Be it escort or friend my post still applies. I find from experience people sometimes go over the top with their presumptions (as your postno 54. ). My advice was to be there as a friend offer advice as appropiate and not presume the whole world will collapse.

Perhaps this will be more to your liking

Whole world not collapsing :

If she’s not hooked (unlikely imho) , a friendly talking to re the dangers of becoming addicted may do the trick .

Dunno how old she is or how long or how much how often she’s been taking it , occasionally or more

regularly .. dunno if she’s at the stage of ‘ah sure if it’s there why not’ , or she’s at the stage of pursuing it ,

choosing to hang out w people based on if it’s available or not , dunno if she’s at the stage of buying it

herself , ....of course must keep in mind that even if she’s just doing it at parties , nothing is for ‘free’ !!!

I hope she’s just dabbling in it for her sake , and your ‘talking-to’ would bring result xx

Honestly , I doubt it , but hopeful .

May want to consult a counselor specializing in substance dependence .

[cum4me]

I don't want to take it just don't know what to say to my friend to make her stop....I have tried just still think she is taking it on occasion.

nothing you will say will matter and if you persist in telling her to quit you will lose a friend, believe me, I know.

Had a few escort friends that are addicts, had a mate who was on it for 6 years but all you can do is be there for them through the bad times as there will not be many good ones

good luck with it

[Mr Sweet Guy]

nothing you will say will matter and if you persist in telling her to quit you will lose a friend, believe me, I know.

Had a few escort friends that are addicts, had a mate who was on it for 6 years but all you can do is be there for them through the bad times as there will not be many good ones

good luck with it

Very good advice mate as people think they know it all and say advice on what they don't know or what really going on what that person going through.

Their is a say mate people comment on what right advice to do , but nobody know what then people are going through. Unless you seen it and being there they should keep their opinion to themselves on anything they don't know properly. The people who been with them and know them a little , know what really happen.

They say truth eventually come out and like everything it will on what problem in their life.
I guess some people don't like to hear or see the truth. As people can be misinterpreted by other of harming them , when really they are trying to help that person in nice way without taken advantage of them or situation they see them in.

Sad indeed as they say unless 100% proof don't accuse or act upon. And if 100% proof then do all you can to help them.