Threesome Advice...

[Sorewillyafteryou]

Must be something in the water ye drink over there, in Ireland cause in other countries men and women do not say ''we have a great marriage'' ''I love my wife'' and cheat ...

How can a marriage/love your partner and cheat on him/her?! Fantasy or not, ye cheat, with a woman, with a man, with a Ts/Tv ... and god knows with what else..

The term pot kettle black comes to mind here!! Abit rich if you ask me!! If you felt so strongly about cheating partners and cheating husbands, then why did you work in the escort industry at all, and stop all the cheating partners and husbands coming to see you and giving you their money!!!! Oh but I guess when there's money involved, it's a different rule for you!!

[Rachel Divine]

The term pot kettle black comes to mind here!! Abit rich if you ask me!! If you felt so strongly about cheating partners and cheating husbands, then why did you work in the escort industry at all, and stop all the cheating partners and husbands coming to see you and giving you their money!!!! Oh but I guess when there's money involved, it's a different rule for you!!

No rule for me.

A punter was looking for sex and a good time with me, I was looking for the same plus getting paid for it. I wasn't getting paid to play the psychologist, good, wrong, cheating is bad etc... A little bit of common sense.

Also, not saying what one actually thinks is part of the game.

As I' m not escorting anymore, I can say what I think in different matters.

[Sorewillyafteryou]

No rule for me.

A punter was looking for sex and a good time with me, I was looking for the same plus getting paid for it. I wasn't getting paid to play the psychologist, good, wrong, cheating is bad etc... A little bit of common sense.

Also, not saying what one actually thinks is part of the game.

As I' m not escorting anymore, I can say what I think in different matters.

As your not escorting anymore, your using it as an excuse, but your completely contradicting yourself, as earlier you were complaining about partners and husbands cheating on their wife's, yet there are probably large numbers of married men who visit escorts, but you never complained about it when you were escorting did you, no, of course not, because they were paying you, and I'm sure back then you didn't care one way or the other that they were attached or not as they were paying you, but now that you are retired from escorting, suddenly now they are all cheats!!! Like the woman on here who was enquiring about the threesome, if she wants to have one with her husband who is in agreement, and they both are happy to do it, then who is anyone else to question their marriage status!!! It's their own business after all!!! And if the married men stopped going to escorts, then many of them would have little or no clients!! But now that you are retired, they now of course are all cheats!!

[CuriousWife]

I'm curious. Is your husband any good at oral sex or does he not perform it at all? You on him? x

No complaints there at all Rachel!!! Just at a stage where i want to explore different experiences.

[ShadyDog]

Just to be clear...im not looking for any offers here...just advice!!! 😁
So a good while back i asked the hubby if he'd be interested in having a threesome with another lady. He seemed very excited and totally up for it. So as soon as an oppertunity presented itself i booked us into a hotel and had a few ladies here on my shortlist. I told him i had it all set up and he backed up making different excuses. So i cancelled everything and left it be. He hasnt brought it up since and i dont want to seem like im pushing him into it. Any ideas how to approach this again or not at all?

You shudda married me

[Forceuser]

So as soon as an oppertunity presented itself i booked us into a hotel and had a few ladies here on my shortlist. I told him i had it all set up and he backed up making different excuses

[CuriousWife]

Ooops, my apologies. I deluded myself that it was possible to get this thread back on topic. I've no idea what possessed me to think that might actually work. I've no excuse. I'm here over five years so I should recognise a thread that's totally derailed by now.
Add in the fact that it's a Friday night and that the topic has a "morality" element which draws in the high-horse brigade like moths to a flame and it should have been obvious that there was never a hope of returning to the actual thread topic.
Excuse me while I try to figure out how to do this to myself.

Thanks for trying frumsp but thread really at the point of no return. I did get the advice i needed though before it flew off the handle so all good thanks!

[CuriousWife]

To the O.P.

3somes don't work, if you love the other person.

I know it ruined the best relationship I ever had.

Keep your kink to escorts if you want my advise.

You're partner obviously loves you.

Cherish that & see escorts only to satisfy your needs.

And don't shit on your doorstep, ever.

Good luck.

Thanks irishdeltaforce. Really appreciate the advice. Might be best really to keep fantasy and reality seperate!

[CuriousWife]

Anecdotes. There are plenty relationships out there that survived and flourished. Your individual circumstances may not transplant to someone else's. Just saying.

In my experience threesomes are just a bit of a pain in the arse from a condom perspective. You'd need to choreograph the thing beforehand.

Hahaha...i had thought about that! Theres an idea for a new invention though...the quick condom applicator aparatus! Watch this space 😂

[CuriousWife]

So Curious wife is it happening. I'm curious

What Barney said 😉