Originally Posted by
CaraClarke
You think that because your view is skewed from one bloody documentary. I'm guessing it was VICE or something ridiculously bias and one-sided.
"Rinsing" is just terminology for the play between a findomme and a finsub during a session. The session being the findomme convincing the finsub to pay her, therefore "rinsing" his wallet. It sounds harsh, and it's clear it upsets you, but it's the financial domination equivalent of leaving the envelope on the dresser.
Now, in relation to the men who "don't know" they're being rinsed. It hardly happens, as findoms rarely approach the men first, and what you'd be referring to sounds like traditional scamming. Yes, it happens that findommes receive payment and don't interact