should I tell her?

[experienced punter]

Using the above mind set...if you tell her, all she will remember from now on when you are having sex...or an argument....or anytime good or bad, is that you slept with escorts. She will think...you pay girls for sex! She will not see that these girls are lovely, good looking and sweet. She will see them as abused, manipulated poor little girls that you have exploited.
As Silo said...guilt is in your consious mind....tell her and it will be in her subconcious mind. Meaning that you can get rid of you guilt by not letting the thought go any further and dismiss it but it will go into her memory bank for ever and even if you do not last she will have to tell someone of your secert who will tell someone else and so it will continue....

great answer

I've taken a day off work due to the stress of this situation

[Patricia]

great answer

I've taken a day off work due to the stress of this situation

Don't stress so much honey. Obviously you like this lady a lot, but it is still quite early days for you. I say if she can't accept you the way you are, she is not the lady for you, BUT I don't think you need to make a FULL CONFESSION today. Take it easy, get to know her better first!

[Tommy Singh]

great answer

I've taken a day off work due to the stress of this situation

Jesus man your stress tolerance to fuckin low.Very low.Its a meditation course you should be asking us about.

She isnt in your life as a partner long enough to let it destroy your mind like this.Your getting too serious too soon and trust me when i say that can have a very bad affect on a relationship.

Its not like she called you a prick.Its only a question and give any old answer at all but the truth.

You know why?Because if you tell her the truth and she accepts it,it wont matter because youll be off work the following day then ,worrying about whether she will stay with you or not or what is on her mind.

Enjoy the realtionship in its infancy.Use a chill mond and relax and have fun and enjoy each others company.No need for to be getting so serious so soon.

enjoy the journey and youll arrive at the destination,
Westside.

PS if i was your employer id fire your arse out the door.What did you tell him?Flu?Menigitis?Anal Fisure?