Been too nice to people can make you friends and enemy too........
As well as it drawback on been too nice......
As any business you work in you make friends and enemy as some people like you and other resent you.......
Example as two strangers walk into a bar at same time and both are drinking and Guys A is been nice and friendly conversation with locals as where ever Guys B is chatting also but he disagreeing with local on certain thing and getting aggressive as drink taking it toil on both guys.........
It easy to know which guy going to leave making friends and maybe pick up a Lady at end of night.........
As their is good genuine members and Escorts here who have let say not the easiest of time here......
But don't change and be who you are as been nice win more friends then been cold and nasty...........
And let the doubter in your life try to put you down but don't become a doormat and stand up for yourself and what you believe in.....
As these links are interesting read and know when to stand up for yourself in right time.........
https://hubpages.com/health/Disadvantages-of-being-nice
https://www.inc.com/jessica-stillman...-hurt-you.html
https://www.quora.com/What-are-the-a...nice-to-people
https://www.quora.com/What-are-the-a...ry-nice-person