What advantage and disadvantage of been too nice in life

[Westsidex]

Been too nice to people can make you friends and enemy too........
As well as it drawback on been too nice......

As any business you work in you make friends and enemy as some people like you and other resent you.......

Example as two strangers walk into a bar at same time and both are drinking and Guys A is been nice and friendly conversation with locals as where ever Guys B is chatting also but he disagreeing with local on certain thing and getting aggressive as drink taking it toil on both guys.........
It easy to know which guy going to leave making friends and maybe pick up a Lady at end of night.........

As their is good genuine members and Escorts here who have let say not the easiest of time here......

But don't change and be who you are as been nice win more friends then been cold and nasty...........

And let the doubter in your life try to put you down but don't become a doormat and stand up for yourself and what you believe in.....

As these links are interesting read and know when to stand up for yourself in right time.........

https://hubpages.com/health/Disadvantages-of-being-nice

https://www.inc.com/jessica-stillman...-hurt-you.html

https://www.quora.com/What-are-the-a...nice-to-people

https://www.quora.com/What-are-the-a...ry-nice-person

You know I have never met someone tthat I would is too nice? There's a time to be nice and a time to be not nice. I don't know if I'm nice or not nice but I do know where to draw the line when it comes to life stuff. I'm also never going to change so if someone doesn't like me then fine with me. I never signed a contract when I was born with all my good and bad points. Bottom line is you won't please everyone or get everyone to like you and shouldn't try to either.

Westside.

[AlessandraFan]

Wayne Kyle: (to his sons) There are three types of people in this world: sheep, wolves, and sheepdogs. Some people prefer to believe that evil doesn't exist in the world, and if it ever darkened their doorstep, they wouldn't know how to protect themselves. Those are the sheep.


Wayne Kyle: Then you've got predators who use violence to prey on the weak. They're the wolves.


Wayne Kyle: And then there are those blessed with the gift of aggression, an overpowering need to protect the flock. These men are the rare breed who live to confront the wolf. They are the sheepdog.

American Sniper.

Woah!

Chris Kyle's dad was not what I was expecting to see in this thread.

Bit simplistic.
Nice metaphor though.

[Westsidex]

you can be nice but fair and firm. people tend to take advantage if you're too nice so you have to draw the line somewhere

Bingo.

Westside.

[pervertwithahorn]

Theoretically speaking your theory is delusional at best .

I love you goatboy gives hug

[AlessandraFan]

That will do pig._.nice job ._..Babe

Will you put that fucking tin of Ronseal down ffs.

[hitman76]

Been too nice to people can make you friends and enemy too........
As well as it drawback on been too nice......

As any business you work in you make friends and enemy as some people like you and other resent you.......

Example as two strangers walk into a bar at same time and both are drinking and Guys A is been nice and friendly conversation with locals as where ever Guys B is chatting also but he disagreeing with local on certain thing and getting aggressive as drink taking it toil on both guys.........
It easy to know which guy going to leave making friends and maybe pick up a Lady at end of night.........

As their is good genuine members and Escorts here who have let say not the easiest of time here......

But don't change and be who you are as been nice win more friends then been cold and nasty...........

And let the doubter in your life try to put you down but don't become a doormat and stand up for yourself and what you believe in.....

As these links are interesting read and know when to stand up for yourself in right time.........

https://hubpages.com/health/Disadvantages-of-being-nice

https://www.inc.com/jessica-stillman...-hurt-you.html

https://www.quora.com/What-are-the-a...nice-to-people

https://www.quora.com/What-are-the-a...ry-nice-person

Let's be honest who gives a fuck on social media it's all a load of shit realistically speaking if you're taking the time to be nice so be it, there are so many cunts in this world why waste your time thinking about and posting on social media, who gives a fuck realistically.
Personally speaking I prefer to respect everybody regardless of the situation, we all have issues which needs to be addressed we all have to attend to these issues regardless of what any other mother fuckers thinks, so live and let live and don't mind any dickhead on social media because anybody who takes the time to be negative this is a dick head.

[FetishCherry]

Always when i done a good thing for someone made me to feel sooo good, make me feel happines inside , made me to feel complete...BUT... sometimes doing a good thing came back against me and my interest, or the person didnt appreciated at all , consider me fool or became enemies when i stopped being able to continue to help them... I Still remained the same good person... but i changed in some way.... i,m more selective when i do good things and i make sure that people really deserve as they are good people too and i start to do good things to people not so lucky in life like homeless or old people with no help from kids or animals.

Dont know if is a good thing or wrong but sometimes i feel much much better when i donate money for rescue animals then when i give to a friend same amount of money as help.

[budinasheasamh]

Hmmmm. Hard one that.

I believe there are distinct disadvantages and advantages to been nice.
Basically I think it boils down to nice people treat others well and not so nice people are , well , not nice, they are jealous of nice people. Nice people are happy and optimistic. Others are sad people who are not capable of niceness.

Take the EI for example. You meet a girl, treat her well, dress nice, clean up well and maybe bring a bunch of flowers in tow.
Nice girls like that, been treated like equals human beings amd they respond by been nice.

Other girls see you as an easy touch , a fool and they act nice to maximise their take, no give and take.
You soon learn who's nice and who's not.
that applies to all aspects of life. The trick is to find nice people, hang around with nice people and give the others a wide berth

[ladiesman217]

Being too nice in life
Advantage: you're a nice guy and everyone knows it
Disadvantage: everyone knows where nice guys finish and so they'll trample on you till the day you die and then some

[Mr Sweet Guy]

Being too nice in life
Advantage: you're a nice guy and everyone knows it
Disadvantage: everyone knows where nice guys finish and so they'll trample on you till the day you die and then some

Spot on post and please one person and two other people resent you for it...

I guess you can't please all as you never win trying to be nice guy

I wonder if turning to dark side would be more fun...
As a mate of mine use to be a bad guy image and Ladies like and adore him...

But that was until he met his wife and he a saint now

The power of a Lady as can turn bad guy image into a Gentleman

Now that worth living for...
As my ex Lady change me too as I wasn't Mr Sweet 15 years ago.....
I went to plenty late night House party but never took drugs as no need to....

I met my ex Lady at rave party playing techno and hardcore music with a flashing light sticks...

But from then on I look at like this as if you treat someone bad then you going to be treat like sh*t also...
So you have to give Respect to earn Respect back...
But true also some people will take advantage of your kind generosity to which they use you...

But if you don't be nice to other then you live a very lonely life as no one want to know you..
And still resent you either way...

Yes always be on guard as if you can't trust other then how are you to be able to trust yourself...
I will say Nice Guys Do Finish Last as seen it so many time in my time and work company