What advantage and disadvantage of been too nice in life

[Barney Rubble]

What. An intrinsic distrust of others niceness. Comparing how nice you to other people's niceness which isn't nice at all. No wait what are you saying, i dont think thats what youre saying but I like it anyway, must think.

Disadvantage, doesn't being nice to everyone sometimes mess with your loyalties. Nice to everyone, loyal to none kind of thing. Like you want your friends to be nice but have your back when needs be. Or be the friend who's nice but when the push comes you're there no matter what and f everything else, right or wrong.

Always nice and never loyal. Or mostly nice and nearly always loyal.

Me mammy always said it's nice to be nice
If you've nothin nice to say shut the fuck up !! She had a way with words

[AlessandraFan]

Me mammy always said it's nice to be nice
If you've nothin nice to say shut the fuck up !! She had a way with words

A tip I learned from a very smart man some years back :
When you're about to address an issue you have with a third party when speaking to a colleague, always mention 3 compliments before reaching your sticking point.

"Bob's a hard worker, he's always on time, he's got a really big penis.
I just wish he'd stop dipping it in my Bovril when I'm not looking"

I hate Bob.

[Mr Sweet Guy]

What. An intrinsic distrust of others niceness. Comparing how nice you to other people's niceness which isn't nice at all. No wait what are you saying, i dont think thats what youre saying but I like it anyway, must think.

Disadvantage, doesn't being nice to everyone sometimes mess with your loyalties. Nice to everyone, loyal to none kind of thing. Like you want your friends to be nice but have your back when needs be. Or be the friend who's nice but when the push comes you're there no matter what and f everything else, right or wrong.

Always nice and never loyal. Or mostly nice and nearly always loyal.

Correct and a Great statement mate and I add to it...
I think nice guy do indeed finish last...

[TrickyDickie]

For as long as I can remember Ive been a dick....it all started in pre school when the entire class failed to laugh at one of my epic jokes and stood jeering me "Dicks a dick, Dicks a dick"
I never went to the staff room again, but that day I vowed I would forever celebrate being a dick and make the most of my superpower and with the birth of the internet i knew my time had come and i could spread my dickness world wide for everyone who needed it

[WatWatWat]

I've never been to Nice. Meant to be beautiful and can't see it being a disadvantage tbh.
I'm fluent in French and love Paris.
Maybe someday.

[AlessandraFan]

I've never been to Nice. Meant to be beautiful and can't see it being a disadvantage tbh.
I'm fluent in French and love Paris.
Maybe someday.

Nice is nice.
Marseilles is nicer though.
Maybe they should swap names ...

[MALCOLM]

Been too nice to people can make you friends and enemy too........
As well as it drawback on been too nice......

As any business you work in you make friends and enemy as some people like you and other resent you.......

Example as two strangers walk into a bar at same time and both are drinking and Guys A is been nice and friendly conversation with locals as where ever Guys B is chatting also but he disagreeing with local on certain thing and getting aggressive as drink taking it toil on both guys.........
It easy to know which guy going to leave making friends and maybe pick up a Lady at end of night.........

As their is good genuine members and Escorts here who have let say not the easiest of time here......

But don't change and be who you are as been nice win more friends then been cold and nasty...........

And let the doubter in your life try to put you down but don't become a doormat and stand up for yourself and what you believe in.....

As these links are interesting read and know when to stand up for yourself in right time.........

https://hubpages.com/health/Disadvantages-of-being-nice

https://www.inc.com/jessica-stillman...-hurt-you.html

https://www.quora.com/What-are-the-a...nice-to-people

https://www.quora.com/What-are-the-a...ry-nice-person

you can be nice but fair and firm. people tend to take advantage if you're too nice so you have to draw the line somewhere

[pervertwithahorn]

As a new user. I'm quite shocked at some people to comments about other users and go on the attack. Being to nice is bad mmkay but being nasty and vile come from a troubled mind and needs addressing.

[pervertwithahorn]

A troubled mind._.advice from a pervert with a horn._._Imbecile

Thanks you just proved my theory :-P

[pervertwithahorn]

Wayne Kyle: (to his sons) There are three types of people in this world: sheep, wolves, and sheepdogs. Some people prefer to believe that evil doesn't exist in the world, and if it ever darkened their doorstep, they wouldn't know how to protect themselves. Those are the sheep.


Wayne Kyle: Then you've got predators who use violence to prey on the weak. They're the wolves.


Wayne Kyle: And then there are those blessed with the gift of aggression, an overpowering need to protect the flock. These men are the rare breed who live to confront the wolf. They are the sheepdog.

American Sniper.

Kyle made alot of insane storiesup crazy dude rip.