Timewasters and Spiteful Reviews

[Irish-hazelx]

I really dont know if I can take much more of this crap. When I have advertised I have clearly advised that I am Curvy the latest spate of horrific texts and spiteful review(the 2 negative ones) are downright atrocious saying im a fat irish bitch and a dirty irish slut. I know Im not bloody thin but for gods sake there is no need to be so bloody rude and abusive. nobody is perfect and I am bloody sure that those who are being awful and ignorant are no brad pitts.

I was recently asked to do an outcall and the guy was with his friends making fun of me when i arrived. Mortified I was. this is wrong. Another time I went to a hotel and he slammed door in my face which was very hurtful, I ran to the toilets crying. By the time I left the hotel I was face to face with him in the car park getting all kinds of threats and having his hand on my neck. This was very scary situation. Thank god I had security waiting for me. Im ready to stop outcalls as part of my service.

I have made it clear that I only work 3 days a week maybe an odd friday (depending on whether i can get nurses into house for dads care) but can never guarantee it. I accepted a 2 hour booking so I travelled to athlone (on my off day) and he got directions and never showed up. I will do my best to those who ring on days Im not in Athlone and will go there if I can.

Many guys out there seem to judge the escorts a lot on their appearances, attitude and other things like B.O. But in fairness a few punters are just as bad in some cases by coming in and then suddenly no wallet coz its in the car. your fatter than I wanted so I want a discount, trying to get the action first and pay later, having the cheek of calling me a " filthy whore and prostitute" and more when I wont meet them especially late at night. my pics are genuine apart from my hair cut shorter so really you are not being misled.

Im sorry to ramble on but had to get this off my chest as Im sick of the way Im being treated and in some cases abused. Nobody is perfect so stop insulting me more about my looks and how big I am. If your not happy with the pics on profile then thats up to you. There are escorts bigger than me with less hardship to endure. Im still human with feelings at the end of the day with a lot on my plate like caring for my dad 24hrs apart from the 3 days I can work when i have nurses. so stop it. stop it now coz its not one bit nice. Its hard enough coping as it is without all of this negativity and abuse and I cannot take much more. I have a good heart and enjoy what I do apart from the negativity so to those who are not genuine GROW UP!

[MrTony]

The Veteran LDM is putting on his slippers and retiring from us..Best of Luck LDM. Things have changed so much in Ireland and on site. I think we as a people are beginning to grow up slowly I might add ...Respect is a principle we should all have in our minds for everyone including ourselves.
Kindness follows.
Remember we are just another animal evolving on this planet. We will come and go like everyone else.
Thanks Amor for raising this thread again on how shocking we were as people towards people.
Let's Grow Together .

[JennyIrish]

Jesus that OP was a tough read, the poor lady!!!!

Looks like there was a lot of low calibre clients back then or maybe the poor lady couldn’t screen property back then. I’m delighted to say that my experience with clients is that they are ordinary, decent gentlemen from all walks of life, we are lucky to have different screening methods to weed out the lowlifes that this poor lady experienced.

LDM, I don’t believe it, you’ll be back babe!

[MistressMonique]

I took am a curvy lady ... One person's perception of perfection is different to another... I don't want to be a size 8 I love my curves my natural big boobs and fat ass I have perfect hygiene if I'm not for you move on but the treatment of this lady was disgraceful why would anyone think this is acceptable

[Harry68]

Great post Amor.

What a brutal first post all those years ago. Stuff that makes you ashamed to be a man. I don’t think men really have any idea what women go through routinely let alone in a business like this.

Nostalgia for some imagined glorious past is a riff the likes of fascists and people insecure about their place in the world today go on about the whole time. It wasn’t great. Plenty of stuff that went on here in Ireland including state colluded rape, murder and torture we are all too familiar with.

My dad who is perhaps the person I admire more than anyone living or dead about 40 years ago told me it was none of our business that the man 4 doors down beat his wife. It took guts of a maybe 5 years before he picked up the phone and called the Gardai. Who came out once. The beatings didn’t stop but they moved somewhere where he not she could start again.

I miss bits of the past and some things were way better than today. I’d hate to be 15 again. Let’s not kid ourselves though that it was some fantastic utopia. The original thread shows we have evolved a bit . Maybe we are just internalising it but I’d like to think evolution has happened a small bit too.

[MrTony]

I think we were conditioned in the past either it be that a woman should look like this , as in all the gloss mags and tv commercials. And even go back as far as rural Ireland in the 80s and 90s that a woman's place is in the kitchen ( and that to be even allowed to be said was just shocking). I remember when I was a teenager cars would drive by ladies and shout out at them whistle at them and say the most filthiest of things.
We were made to think of woman as objects, small or large .
We had to change the way we were brought up thinking ..I think that's called a psychic change..
"When you change the way you look at things ,the things you look at change ".

[JennyIrish]

I took am a curvy lady ... One person's perception of perfection is different to another... I don't want to be a size 8 I love my curves my natural big boobs and fat ass I have perfect hygiene if I'm not for you move on but the treatment of this lady was disgraceful why would anyone think this is acceptable

I think that voluptuous boobs and bum are very feminine traits, there’s something very sensual about feminine curves

I think we were conditioned in the past either it be that a woman should look like this , as in all the gloss mags and tv commercials. And even go back as far as rural Ireland in the 80s and 90s that a woman's place is in the kitchen ( and that to be even allowed to be said was just shocking). I remember when I was a teenager cars would drive by ladies and shout out at them whistle at them and say the most filthiest of things.
We were made to think of woman as objects, small or large .
We had to change the way we were brought up thinking ..I think that's called a psychic change..
"When you change the way you look at things ,the things you look at change ".

Do you know I think I’m some ways it’s worse now, I heard a song yesterday, I think it was by Doja Cat and the lyrics included the line “choke me until I pass out” on what planet is it ok for an influential female to sing those words?!!!!!

I’m always far more shocked by stories from my civvie female friends than my escort friends, affairs with much younger guys, casual one night stands though married to good men . . .

Then on the other extreme you have a group of feminists in the UK who have complained to make a wolf whistling a criminal offence due to the fact that it is “intimidating”, Did you ever hear such bull, hundreds of years fighting for equal rights equal pay et cetera et cetera but now some women want to play the permanent victim, I would be delighted with life if I was wolf whistled at!!!

[AmorInfinito8]

I think that voluptuous boobs and bum are very feminine traits, there’s something very sensual about feminine curves



Do you know I think I’m some ways it’s worse now, I heard a song yesterday, I think it was by Doja Cat and the lyrics included the line “choke me until I pass out” on what planet is it ok for an influential female to sing those words?!!!!!

I’m always far more shocked by stories from my civvie female friends than my escort friends, affairs with much younger guys, casual one night stands though married to good men . . .

Then on the other extreme you have a group of feminists in the UK who have complained to make a wolf whistling a criminal offence due to the fact that it is “intimidating”, Did you ever hear such bull, hundreds of years fighting for equal rights equal pay et cetera et cetera but now some women want to play the permanent victim, I would be delighted with life if I was wolf whistled at!!!

It wasn't Doja cat

Doja's my Babe 💘

Doja is all about female empowerment in her music

Yes her lyrics are X-rated at times


Woman

"Gotta prove it to myself that I'm on top of shit
And you will never know a God without a Goddess
As honest as fuckin' honest get
And I could be on everything
I mean I could be the leader, head of all the states
I could smile and jiggle it 'til his pockets empty
I could be the CEO, just look at Robyn Fenty
And I'ma be there for you 'cause you on my team, girl
Don't ever think you ain't heada these n#### dream girl
They wanna pit us against each other when we succeedin' for no reasons"





I Google searched the lyrics you mentioned it's called

One Of The Girls
Song by Abel Tesfaye, Jennie Kim, and Lily-Rose Depp

https://youtu.be/o5adBWIboQo?si=c_oiROhX6n6oaLKm


I don't know who would listen to crap like this
totally not my style

[JennyIrish]

It wasn't Doja cat

Doja's my Babe ��

Doja is all about female empowerment in her music

Yes her lyrics are X-rated at times


Woman

"Gotta prove it to myself that I'm on top of shit
And you will never know a God without a Goddess
As honest as fuckin' honest get
And I could be on everything
I mean I could be the leader, head of all the states
I could smile and jiggle it 'til his pockets empty
I could be the CEO, just look at Robyn Fenty
And I'ma be there for you 'cause you on my team, girl
Don't ever think you ain't heada these n#### dream girl
They wanna pit us against each other when we succeedin' for no reasons"





I Google searched the lyrics you mentioned it's called

One Of The Girls
Song by Abel Tesfaye, Jennie Kim, and Lily-Rose Depp

https://youtu.be/o5adBWIboQo?si=c_oiROhX6n6oaLKm


I don't know who would listen to crap like this
totally not my style

You’re spot on that’s who it was!!!

Damn & I liked Lilly Rose Depp!!!

You’re right about Doja Cat, I love her song “Boss B!tch”!!

Apologies for my mistake!

[AmorInfinito8]

You’re spot on that’s who it was!!!

Damn & I liked Lilly Rose Depp!!!

You’re right about Doja Cat, I love her song “Boss B!tch”!!

Apologies for my mistake!

Jenny your a girl after my own ❤️

Doja Cat and Harley Quinn
in the same video ❤️❤️